April 2012 Moms

T&P please (NBR)

My DH's grandma died on Friday.  It was VERY unexpected and unfortunately we found her when we went to visit like we always do on Friday.  My DH is very broken up about it and I know it's majorly weighing on him (esp. since they found her but 911 also had him doing CPR on her and everything too).  My MIL is taking it really hard too.  I am trying to keep everything together for the both of them but I am having a difficult time and am not sure how to handle everything.  I keep thinking that if I hadn't put so much of a fight in not wanting to get out of bed that morrning we would have gotten to breakfast on time and would have been there before it happened and it may have turned out differently. :-/  Also, really regrettful that we have no pictures of Madelyn and her.  She sees her every week it's just his grandma never really wanted pictures at those times since her hair was messed up. :-(
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  • I'm so sorry. That sounds like an awful thing to go through. T&Ps to your family.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard but try not to be so hard on yourself and the what-ifs. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
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  • So very sorry, especially that you had to find her like that. Ts and Ps for you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry. Don't blame yourself, this is not your fault, at all. 
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  • Sorry to hear.  T&Ps.
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  • I can't imagine having to do CPR on a loved one. I'm so sorry for your family's loss. T&P.

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  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry. Don't blame yourself.
    i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
  • Thoughts and prayers your way. Like others said, don't harbor on the what ifs....it wasn't your fault.
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  • I'm sorry, I know it is only human to start placing some blame on yourself, but try not to if you can. I'm sorry you have no pictures together. When ds was a newborn and I felt like total crap and didn't want any pictures of myself, I'm glad when I look back that my mom took some still even when I told her no. When things calm down some, you should write down some of your memories of your weekly visit so that you can share them with your dd when she is older. This way she will know how much she was loved by her great grandma.
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  • I'm sorry. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. What-ifs are natural in a situation like this, but please know you couldn't have done anything to change the outcome of this. Thinking of you and your family. Hang in there. ((hugs))
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Whatifs are natural in a situation like this, but please know you couldn't have done anything to change the outcome of this. Thinking of you and your family. Hang in there. hugs

    This. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.
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  • Praying for your family!
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  • Thinking of your family... that's never easy.
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  • I'm so sorry.  I'll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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