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Who is more in the wrong?

gisa886gisa886 member
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On the STFU Parents Facebook page they posted a story about a woman in Utah who sat her two twin daughters on their potties in the middle of a restaurant. Gross for sure. However, I'm of the opinion that the woman who snapped their picture and posted it all over Facebook, causing it to reach the news is worse. She put something up that could potentially follow those girls forever. What say you?
i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
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  • vsalt31vsalt31 member
    The woman who took pictures is the greater of 2 evils.  I would have certainly judged the woman with the potty, but I would have gotten over it and/or left (if I was that unhappy about the situtation), but to blast it all over FB is a bit extreme.  That lady needs a life & a hobby.
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  • hass2001hass2001

    imagevsalt31:
    The woman who took pictures is the greater of 2 evils.  I would have certainly judged the woman with the potty, but I would have gotten over it and/or left (if I was that unhappy about the situtation), but to blast it all over FB is a bit extreme.  That lady needs a life & a hobby.

    This for sure. I wouldn't have been too bothered by the mother, probably just side eye, then go back to my dinner. The lady who posted the picture needs to mind her own business. 

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  • NeverLostHopeNeverLostHope
    Absolutely the woman who posted the pics was wrong. Especially since the kids were pretty much naked. If she had an issue with it, she should have brought it up to management, NOT taken pics of someone else's kids. (and yes, the pottys at the table were wrong too)
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  • gisa886gisa886 member
    I seem to be in the minority and people are telling me I am almost as dumb as the mother who did that. They say she deserves to be shamed, but I'm thinking more of the two little girls who will be embarrassed and really had no choice in the matter.
    i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
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  • KatFCoKatFCo member
    imagegisa886:
    I seem to be in the minority and people are telling me I am almost as dumb as the mother who did that. They say she deserves to be shamed, but I'm thinking more of the two little girls who will be embarrassed and really had no choice in the matter.
    What the mother did was dumb, and yeah, I think she should be embarrassed, but the woman who took the picture should be ashamed of herself. In all honesty, the news should be ashamed too, for publishing it and making her out to be the good guy.
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  • ateal2490ateal2490 member

    Is it even legal for a stranger to take a picture of naked children and post it for all to see? I mean, I saw the picture....there's nothing you can see...but still.

     

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  • jacka02jacka02 member
    The two little girls will be embarrassed because of their mothers actions. I would never take a picture and post it but If the mother didn't do that than there wouldn't be a picture to take. I didn't see the picture yet.
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  • thadsradthadsrad

    They are both really dumb.  And, in hindsight the woman who took the pictures should NOT have posted that on facebook.  But, honestly, the woman with the potties is more despicable to me.  She put her kids in an inappropriate situation, threatened the cleanliness of the restaurant, disgusted fellow human beings, and generally thought her problems were the center of the universe.  

    I DO feel bad for the girls. The news and social media involving kids generally annoys me.   

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  • dubs3dubs3
    imagethadsrad:
    They are both really dumb. nbsp;And, in hindsight the woman who took the pictures should NOT have posted that on facebook. nbsp;But, honestly, the woman with the potties is morenbsp;despicable to me. nbsp;She put her kids in an inappropriate situation, threatened the cleanliness of the restaurant, disgusted fellow human beings, and generally thought her problems were the center of the universe. nbsp;I DO feel bad for the girls. The news and social media involving kids generally annoys me. nbsp;nbsp;


    This, exactly. The mother put her daughters in a situation where any stranger could take a picture...this wasn't some creepo taking a pic of a baby middiaper change...the mom stripped her kids down in the middle of a restaurant for what seems like quite a while. Im not saying that justifies posting pics of naked kids all over the Internet, but it's a mom's job to protect, as best as she can, her kids from the pervy people of the world. Doesn't look like she did a good job of that.
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  • gisa886gisa886 member
    I agree that the mother did a terrie thing, but I am more bothered that the picture taker didn't take the high road.
    i wish i could be joking but my dad is the music teacher at a church so he owuld be mad. we had sex, all the time how bad i know but we dont want to wait and he said GREAT OH KAY! and I was really feeling the wets? down there- too embarsed to say- but he acted like man.
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  • MamasaurusMamasaurus member
    You don't take pictures of other people's kids, especially not with their pants down. Just no. NO.
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  • hass2001hass2001
    imagegisa886:
    I agree that the mother did a terrie thing, but I am more bothered that the picture taker didn't take the high road.


    Exactly. What was the point of posting the pics? She should have taken her issue up with the mother or the restaurant so they could deal with it.
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