it was me concerning Butterbrot

megoguen · September 2012

So I'm the jerk that posted the insensitive comment about Butterbrots signature of her cute kids. I shouldn't have done that and I sent her a private message apologizing. I feel terrible that I offended her like this. Usually when someone says they are leaving the board, it's something kinda big. So I can't believe I caused this and I said that. I woke up and read the comments and started crying that I caused her that much hurt. I never get involved in the drama or debates on the board because I'm not combative at all so I don't know why I did this. I'm usually the one to try and make people feel better so this was out of character for me. I admit I totally super suck and should not have said what I did and I never meant to sexualize her kids picture. It wasn't meant like that but I can't take anything back. And I'm not coming back as a new person since that's lame.

I will probably not post as much anymore since this one thing will be looked at as tarnishing my name. I really hope Butterbrot stays. I hope she doesn't let an insensitive comment ruin her time on her and I hope people can understand that people make mistakes. I really, truly am sorry.

Musiclover2012 · September 2012

You've been here forever and there is no need to go. You've done the right thing by sending her a PM to apologize and then saying how you feel here. You seem like a nice person who meant no harm. We all make mistakes and there is no need to feel like a lynch mob is after you. I say stick around, it's all good!

MsCatra · September 2012

In the future, perhaps think before clicking "post". Not every thought needs to be a public one.

tiannalee · September 2012

I dont think you should you should go either. I feel like this was a big misundrstanding.

marriedsisterofbride · September 2012

I agree with Tiannalee. I think it was a real big misunderstanding. I don't think your name will be tarnished by this at all and hopefully Butterbrot doesn't think that everyone was looking at her DD's panties. I didn't notice them at all, I just saw two cute kids reading books

smudgee · September 2012

All I saw was 2 kids reading a book, but you saw more. You said your piece and then you apologized not only in a private message but right here right now.

So you dont need to go, nor does Butterbrot!

starshollow · September 2012

smudgee:
All I saw was 2 kids reading a book, but you saw more. You said your piece and then you apologized not only in a private message but right here right now.
So you dont need to go, nor does Butterbrot!

Well said, Smudgee!

miniray · September 2012

smudgee:

All I saw was 2 kids reading a book, but you saw more. You said your piece and then you apologized not only in a private message but right here right now.

So you dont need to go, nor does Butterbrot!

This! Neither of you should go. Things happen. What's important is you felt the need to appologize and you did.

Browneyedhunni85 · September 2012

I think we should all move on. You have recognized your mistake and apologized. I don't think there is much more you can do except think before posting another comment in the future. You both should stay. No need to let this misunderstanding get in the way.

TrudyCampbell · September 2012

You really need to convince Butterbrot to stay because she is awesome.

megoguen · September 2012

TrudyCampbell:
You really need to convince Butterbrot to stay because she is awesome.

She IS awesome. That's why I sent her a PM, also explaining why I suck. If I didn't care, I wouldn't have sent the PM and explained myself to everyone. The board made a great turn when she came on and has made me LOL a few times. She shouldn't leave because of one person putting their foot in their mouth at her and her kids expense. She is up there with the funniest and adds an essential touch to the board.

lauranicole91 · September 2012

I just caught wind of all this. I forgot to go back and check that thread after asking you about the siggy in question. I saw the "don't go butterbrot" post and did some good hard thinking and made the connection.

Now I feel terrible that I made you "spill the beans". Sad

I loved that siggy she had of her kids, it was adorable with them reading together. I, like many others, never even noticed the "crotch shot".

I hope she decides to stay, as well as you!!

gracefulash · September 2012

I noticed and mainly thought about it because of the post about a certain bumpies husband being a pedophile and going on the bump just to look at all the photos on here. I was going to msg her but didn't know the correct wording and didn't want to hurt someones feelings.

eav2c · September 2012

MsCatra:
In the future, perhaps think before clicking "post". nbsp;Not every thought needs to be a public one.

I truly believe Meg was coming from a place of concern. I don't think making her feel bad helps the situation at all. She apologized which is something a lot of people wouldn't do.. They would run away and that would be it.

Meg, I hope you stay as well as Butter.

huahualove · September 2012

gracefulash:
I noticed and mainly thought about it because of the post about a certain bumpies husband being a pedophile and going on the bump just to look at all the photos on here. I was going to msg her but didn't know the correct wording and didn't want to hurt someones feelings.

wait, what?! What are you talking about because I missed that post? Who said their husband did that? WTF, that is messed up!

ateal2490 · September 2012

huahualove:
gracefulash:
I noticed and mainly thought about it because of the post about a certain bumpies husband being a pedophile and going on the bump just to look at all the photos on here. I was going to msg her but didn't know the correct wording and didn't want to hurt someones feelings.
wait, what?! What are you talking about because I missed that post? Who said their husband did that? WTF, that is messed up!

In summary, there is this chick, AllisonMarie (who'/s username you may recognize from the tri boards from way back when) who, for some reason, decided to come out and disclose to a select few that her husband is a registered sex offender. Because the bumpies that received the information are rational, sensible, and protective of their peers, one of their little birdies pulled down the curtain AllisonMarie by alerting her BmB (and maybe a few other boards as well).

People got to Googling, as all bumpies are obligated to do, and it was discovered that he had multiple charges for possession of child pornography. Her little lapdog, Alicia somethingoranother attempted to come to her defense, but was no match for all the pissed off women on the board. On top of that, apparently the June 2012 board had raised quite a bit of money to pay for a maid to help around the house because her husband was a lazy pos. There was quite a bit that was donated....and Alicia was at the head of it all. Turns out that the June ladies donated money so that Allison's disgusting husband could sit on his fat, perverted a-s-s.

The original threads wherein this information was disclosed have been long deleted, but here's a link to some of the aftermath.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/67889347.aspx

Now, back to the matter at hand.

Meg, there is no reason for you to go...we all do and say some pretty stupid sh*t, so in reality, we're all tarnished a bit (quite possibly more so myself) and that's okay. You said your apologized and acknowleged your mistake...and there are plenty of people who are unable to do so-THOSE are the people who we want to go all GBCB on us.

And ButterBrot!!! DONT LEAVE ME HERE ALONE WITH THE CRAZIES.

(I figured caps lock and exaggeration may help the cause.)

huahualove · September 2012

Ateal, that is messed up. I somehow missed all of that when it was going down. He should have been made sterile and never allowed to breed. I can't believe she actively tried to have kids with that man having knowledge of what he was truly like. Sickening.

gracefulash · September 2012

Thanks, Ateal.

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