I also posted this on the 03 month board:
I feel like a horrible mother. In complete desperation for sleep at 1 this morning, I fell asleep on the couch with DS on my chest. I'm mad at myself because 1 I know it's not safe, I did sleep right against the couch so I wouldn't roll and DS wouldn't fall off and 2 this is a huge step backwards as the goal is for him to sleep in his crib by midOctober when I go back to work. On a good note, DS slept 3 hours straight and slept through his 2 a.m. feeding which I heard was the first nighttime feeding to elimate to encourage sleeping through the night. My ? Is what can I do to help him sleep as good ad he does on my chest? My ped won't let him sleep on his stomach but him sleeping so well makes me think that is how he wants to sleep. Any advice would be great!
Re: LO sleeps best on me
Download the ap "white noise baby" it has a picture of a baby with a white towel on its head. The Doppler or car one work amazingly at calming my baby
I've done this multiple times since Evie was born, lots of times not intentionally - she does not sleep well at night. From suggestions here, I'll be buying the Rock & Play today to see how that goes.
I think we're in the same boat, keep us updated!
SCANDAL!
The fact that they sleep better on their stomachs is the problem - they sleep so deeply that it can interfere with their breathing.
You are not a bad mom! No one does things by the book 100% of the time. Does he wake up if you wait 30 min. before putting him down?
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Have you tried swaddling?