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What kind of BC do you use?

I am already thinking of what method of BC I want after this baby is born. I need to do some research anyway (I haven't used birth control in a long time), but I'd like to hear from you ladies before I begin my internet searching. So, what BC method do you use? Pros? Cons? TIA!

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Re: What kind of BC do you use?

  • I'm thinking about it already too! I'm definitely discussing permanent options with my doc but if I decided I'm not ready for that, I'm going with Mirena. I liked having an IUD but my periods were out of control heavy and crampy with Paraguard.
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  • I use Amethyst, where I have one period a year. I have endometriosis though...and they tried me on Seasonale, so that I would have 4 periods a year, but that made me b!tchy...
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  • Mirena!  I suggest it to everyone, I love it!  No real period since February 2010.
  • Honestly, the idea of not having a period or having one like once a year kind of freaks me out a little bit.

     

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  • We use condoms because I don't like hormonal BC and have no desire to have something other than a baby in my uterus.
  • imagelittlemac1117:

    Honestly, the idea of not having a period or having one like once a year kind of freaks me out a little bit.

     

    My doctor said it was about half and half. Half of people had lighter periods and half of people ended up with no periods.  I ended up on the side I wanted to be on, but if it bothers you, know that there's a high risk of no period.
  • I'm thinking of using Mirena, but the thought of something hanging out in my ute weirds me out too! Haha. Perhaps I am doomed to use condoms...

    Does anyone have Nuvaring? I could be okay with that, I think. If you have it, do you like it? Can you feel when its in, or can you feel it (or DH) during sex? Everything about it seems good to me, except I don't want to be walking around feeling like I need to adjust my vagina ring haha!

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    Got an NSFW call out, sorry y'all.

    My answer was condoms.

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    Mirena!  I suggest it to everyone, I love it!  No real period since February 2010.

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    imagelittlemac1117:

    Honestly, the idea of not having a period or having one like once a year kind of freaks me out a little bit.

    Me too!!  I use the regular pill.  The amount of money I would blow every month on 15,000 pregnancy tests if I didn't get my period is ridiculous.  The pill was a bit of an adjustment for the first month, but now I'm back into the groove (I was on the pill for 15 years before I went too to get pregg) and it's great.  My period is only 3 days long, very light, and my PMS is only semi-raging.  I take whatever the generic form of Yaz is.

    I can't get down with the idea of a small apparatus in my ute... Though I wish I could because it would be sweet to not have to worry about remembering the pill.

    LOL, yes I do this.  I take an HPT (wondfo strip) and check for strings every month on the first of the month.  My DH thinks I'm crazy but those strips are pretty cheap so I don't mind.  My OB also looks at me crazy when I go in and say, well I took an HPT and it was negative 10 days ago.  Oh well, I don't mind people thinking I'm crazy. 

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    imagelittlemac1117:

    Honestly, the idea of not having a period or having one like once a year kind of freaks me out a little bit.

    Me too!!  I use the regular pill.  The amount of money I would blow every month on 15,000 pregnancy tests if I didn't get my period is ridiculous.  The pill was a bit of an adjustment for the first month, but now I'm back into the groove (I was on the pill for 15 years before I went too to get pregg) and it's great.  My period is only 3 days long, very light, and my PMS is only semi-raging.  I take whatever the generic form of Yaz is.

    I can't get down with the idea of a small apparatus in my ute... Though I wish I could because it would be sweet to not have to worry about remembering the pill.

    LOL, yes I do this.  I take an HPT (wondfo strip) and check for strings every month on the first of the month.  My DH thinks I'm crazy but those strips are pretty cheap so I don't mind.  My OB also looks at me crazy when I go in and say, well I took an HPT and it was negative 10 days ago.  Oh well, I don't mind people thinking I'm crazy. 

    Haha I think I would have to stock up on some wondfos, because I would probably do the same thing.

    I mean, I have a little while after baby comes, and when it comes down to it, I know how to chart, so there is that. I just know that we definitely can't afford any oopses.

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    I use NFP.

    This is what we (I) did for a long time to avoid, and then to conceive. I like it because I like knowing what my body is doing. At this point, though, after 2 babies, I need to be very cautious until we are ready for #3. I just don't want to have to think about my BC for a while.

    A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
  • I used Paragard before removing it to NTNP with DD. I did have some cramps but they went away shortly.
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  • imagelittlemac1117:

    I'm thinking of using Mirena, but the thought of something hanging out in my ute weirds me out too! Haha. Perhaps I am doomed to use condoms...

    Does anyone have Nuvaring? I could be okay with that, I think. If you have it, do you like it? Can you feel when its in, or can you feel it (or DH) during sex? Everything about it seems good to me, except I don't want to be walking around feeling like I need to adjust my vagina ring haha!

    I'm on my 3rd month with NuvaRing & I really like it so far.  I love that I don't have to remember to take a pill everyday.  I can't feel it at all & SO said he can't feel it either.  TMI warning:  It started to slip out once while I was pooping, which I had previously read can happen.  After that I try to make sure it is farther inside & I haven't had an issue since.

    Twice now AF hasn't shown up until 3 days after removal but I've heard that isn't uncommon.  I haven't noticed any side-effects.

    Only con I can think of is the price but that may vary depending on your health plan coverage.

    Hth!

    ETA: I originally wanted an IUD after DS was born but since I never dilated past (possibly even to) 1 cm, my OB advised against it since having it placed would have been a b*tch.


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    I use NFP.

    At first I assumed this meant "No Flucking Protection".

    LMAO! Yeah pretty much. But seriously, its been good for me.

  • We used the trusty pull n pray...works great. Points to ticker
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    We used the trusty pull n pray...works great. Points to ticker

    Teehee.  Yeah, I heard that method is the most reliable.  You must have been one of the 50% for whom that method failed? Wink

  • Abstinence has been working really well for me. DH is not quite as supportive of this method, but I find it to be nearly 100% effective.
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    Abstinence has been working really well for me. DH is not quite as supportive of this method, but I find it to be nearly 100% effective.

    LOL. My DH would probably not be on board with this method. 100% of the time, it works every time. 

    A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
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    Abstinence has been working really well for me. DH is not quite as supportive of this method, but I find it to be nearly 100% effective.

    LOL, that one is my DH's least favorite also.

  • imagelittlemac1117:

    imagekmm2150:
    Abstinence has been working really well for me. DH is not quite as supportive of this method, but I find it to be nearly 100% effective.

    LOL. My DH would probably not be on board with this method. 100% of the time, it works every time. 

    sometimes bottle of wine=abstinence FAIL.

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    imageJohnsonShmonson:
    We used the trusty pull n pray...works great. Points to ticker

    Teehee.&nbsp; Yeah, I heard that method is the most reliable.&nbsp; You must have been one of the 50% for whom that method failed?&nbsp;Wink



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  • Mirena.

    Got it at my 6 week pp check up.  Easy, easy insertion.

    Pros: no thinking about BC at all

    Cons: cost ($$) but it is one time and I'm sure many benefit packages would cover; bled on and off for many weeks after it was inserted (which bummed me out as I was breastfeeding and expecting NO period for months)

    I like it and will have it replaced when my DS turns 5.

    ETA: I get regular periods with my Mirena

    promised myself I'd retire when I turned gold, and yet here I am
  • Before getting pregnant, we used either the pill, or, when I really wasn't feeling like being on the pill, condoms.

    Since we found out I have clotting factors in my blood, I can't do the pill anymore, which is fine with me. We're using condoms until hubby gets the snip (this September) and tests clean. 

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  • We have defied many forms of birth control. DH is on vasectomy #2 and I'm going to ask my doctor for Essure when I go for my yearly check this fall. It better freaking work this time.
  • Paragard here. So far so good. I dislike how hormonal BC makes me feel.

    Using the pull n pray method is how we got DD.
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  • Don't be hatin' on pull and pray! When done correctly, it is 96 effective. wink
    But I would totally be okay if I were to get pregnant again.
    We also use condoms and NFP.

    Edit: why won't it let me use parenthesis for a wink face?
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  • Currently pull and pray.  We started TTC this, month but because of a health issue I have, we can't in Sept, and will hopefully resume in Oct.  Otherwise it would be the pill.
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    Don't be hatin' on pull and pray! When done correctly, it is 96 effective. wink But I would totally be okay if I were to get pregnant again. We also use condoms and NFP. Edit: why won't it let me use parenthesis for a wink face?

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  • Birth control pills.  Loestrin 24.
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