I totally suck at taking the "I'm ___ months old" pictures and have not taken a single one on the correct day. I also don't always use baby wipes during a diaper change when she has only peed (If I'm really tired).
I have never taken month by month photos of any of my boys, they get plenty of pics taken I just like candid better than possed and oh yeah I forget.
Some times I skip the wipes too on both my 2u2.
And I eat chocolate every day most days three times a day!! Also some times I let lo cry if I just have to deal with something or someone else.
I still haven't made any progress on getting my daughter baptized.
It's not that her baptism isn't important to me - it is. But she's the first grandchild on both sides of the family, and I know our families will turn it into a big, stressful ordeal and there will be a huge blowup if we don't find a date that works for every extended family member to come in. Just like our wedding. Ugh.
So I keep ignoring it.
I wish we could just have it done on a random Sunday at Mass with just us and her Godparents, but that's not going to fly.
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I am thrilled the DH helps with the baby, especially in the mornings when we are in a rush to get out the door to work/daycare, but I am secretly jealous/mad that he has all this "time" to play with her while I am running around like a mad woman getting bottles together, pump together, me dressed, LO dressed, lunches made, clothes ironed.
Also, when I am alone and AFTER I have BF/pumped, I will go outside on occasion and smoke.
I haven't taken 'month' pictures...ever...with either girl, oops! But I am slowly becoming a fulltime photographer (waiting until I am done nursing) and I am constantly taking pics of the girls.
I pretend not to hear LO poop in the morning. After I changed her sleep diaper and feed her, she always poops again, and I just let it stay there for the short drive to daycare. We're usually about to leave the house anyway, so I pretend it happens in the car.
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As much as I'm enjoying DD more now that she's a little older, I STILL can't wait for her to be even a little older - I want to hit that 6 month point because it sounds like that's when LOs become really fun. I know I'm supposed to savor the moment and be happy with things as they are, but I constantly catch myself wishing that we were closer to December already.
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I pretend not to hear LO poop in the morning. After I changed her sleep diaper and feed her, she always poops again, and I just let it stay there for the short drive to daycare. We're usually about to leave the house anyway, so I pretend it happens in the car.
As much as I'm enjoying DD more now that she's a little older, I STILL can't wait for her to be even a little older - I want to hit that 6 month point because it sounds like that's when LOs become really fun. I know I'm supposed to savor the moment and be happy with things as they are, but I constantly catch myself wishing that we were closer to December already.
Exactly.
As for my own confession, I shower every other day, and sometimes I skip shaving if I am home alone with LO. I put him in his bouncer in the bathroom doorway, and keep my shower door open to watch him. I have about 10-15 minutes max with him in there and not getting fussy since he's outgrowing the thing. I take loooooong showers and can only do so when DH is home to watch LO.
I feel like I've almost totally abandoned tummy time. DD is not a big fan of being on her stomach and I'm letting her get away with it by only doing MAYBE 5 mins every 3-4 days. I'm actually getting nervous that she'll never learn to roll over if I don't start helping her get over it.
I feel like I've almost totally abandoned tummy time. DD is not a big fan of being on her stomach and I'm letting her get away with it by only doing MAYBE 5 mins every 3-4 days. I'm actually getting nervous that she'll never learn to roll over if I don't start helping her get over it.
I feel like I've almost totally abandoned tummy time. DD is not a big fan of being on her stomach and I'm letting her get away with it by only doing MAYBE 5 mins every 3-4 days. I'm actually getting nervous that she'll never learn to roll over if I don't start helping her get over it.
This is my guilt too...
Same here. I try it about once a week now that I am back to work. And then it is just a couple of minutes if at all.
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I pretend not to hear LO poop in the morning. After I changed her sleep diaper and feed her, she always poops again, and I just let it stay there for the short drive to daycare. We're usually about to leave the house anyway, so I pretend it happens in the car.
LOL. I have done this too with my DD. If she pooped or peed a full diaper right on our way out the door to daycare I pretended it happened on the way too. Hey, when your in a hurry who cares.
I feel like I've almost totally abandoned tummy time. DD is not a big fan of being on her stomach and I'm letting her get away with it by only doing MAYBE 5 mins every 3-4 days. I'm actually getting nervous that she'll never learn to roll over if I don't start helping her get over it.
This is my guilt too...
Same here. I try it about once a week now that I am back to work. And then it is just a couple of minutes if at all.
I am not doing great with this either. I am sure I can find a couple minutes in my evening to do it but I really am busy every second it feels like. When we do get a breather to do it, DS gets cranky because he wants to go to bed. We do it more on weekends when there is more time. He still hates it though.
I weigh less than I did before getting pregnant. I lost 75 of the baby weight in the first 2 weeks. I lost the rest then a few pounds more by about 8 weeks post partum. And I haven't dieted, exercised, or thought about it! I NEVER expected that to happen, as I love food. I haven't really told anyone that, and I feel weird when people say "You look great!". Let me also say, I'm not really skinny or anything. I'm within healthy weight for my height. Before I got pregnant I was at the very top of the recommended weight. Now I'm about 5 below that. Breastfeeding is the BEST DIET EVER.
My second confession: Work feels like vacation. I'm on easier projects than before maternity leave. And, I'm happy I'm at work he's in daycare. I felt like a bad SAHM at the end of my leave. I was always guilty I didn't get anything done around the house. I felt like I needed to cook from scratch every night keep it clean. But I'd rather just play with care for DS. When I was doing one, I always felt I should be doing the other. Now that I'm back at work, I miss him a TON, but I am paying people to care for him, play with him, etc. The daycare ladies love him, and take good care of him. The house is still a wreck, we eat frozen crap for dinner, but my guilt over it is nonexistent. I'm much more cut out to be a working mom than a SAHM. And I'm glad he's in daycare because as he grows he'll learn social skills, and we love that he is around children of all ethnic backgrounds. My child is mixed race.
I still have thank you cards and birth announcements I haven't sent out A has a flat spot on his head because he always sleeps with his head to the left, and I think it's my fault for always putting him on the same side of his brother when they slept together, and the same side when feeding them on the boppys. I should have been more conscious of switching sides but I never really thought about it.
We let our LO sleep on his tummy, even at night. We have done so since he was about 10 weeks old.
DD is a tummy sleeper too. She can now roll from her back to belly on occassion, but she's been sleeping on her tummy for a month now.
DD has slept on her belly from the time that she turned 4 weeks. She went from 20 minute naps to 2 hour ones. She's always had a pretty strong neck and could turn her head while on her belly by then, so I wasn't too worried.
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I only wipe pee every other time - 2U2 and both have very sensitive skin.
I'm lucky if I get a shower once every 3 days and sometimes that requires bathing with DS.
If DS poops on the way out the door to daycare I also just leave it and let them change him (because they change him anyway and throw away a perfectly clean diaper otherwise).
I had newborn photos done and have a Groupon for a Shutterfly album but have not even made an attempt to make it.
I work PT from home (with DD) and my house is a mess all the time.
I don't shave every day, never have and never will.
As much as I'm enjoying DD more now that she's a little older, I STILL can't wait for her to be even a little older - I want to hit that 6 month point because it sounds like that's when LOs become really fun. I know I'm supposed to savor the moment and be happy with things as they are, but I constantly catch myself wishing that we were closer to December already.
I don't think they start getting fun until at least a year. I'm not a newborn person. I love the 18 - 24 month age. The difference in my DD from 15 months to 18 months is night and day.
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I still wear my maternity pants on occasion...they are just so much more comfortable. Sometimes I wish I was pregnant again for the sole purpose of having a good excuse to wear maternity clothes.
Also, if DD is asleep in her carseat from the drive home from work/daycare, I sometimes leave her in her seat in the middle of the floor to nap while I get dinner started and some other things done.
This one was from before DD started sleeping through the night. DD used to get up twice a night, and since DH gets up earlier than me, he would take the first feeding and I would take the second feeding. This way he could get back to sleep for a few hours before getting up for work. Well at some point DD only started getting up once a night, and I didn't tell DH. So he would get up for his turn thinking that I was getting up later, but in reality I was getting a full night's sleep.
I still wear my maternity pants on occasion...they are just so much more comfortable. Sometimes I wish I was pregnant again for the sole purpose of having a good excuse to wear maternity clothes.
Also, if DD is asleep in her carseat from the drive home from work/daycare, I sometimes leave her in her seat in the middle of the floor to nap while I get dinner started and some other things done.
This one was from before DD started sleeping through the night. DD used to get up twice a night, and since DH gets up earlier than me, he would take the first feeding and I would take the second feeding. This way he could get back to sleep for a few hours before getting up for work. Well at some point DD only started getting up once a night, and I didn't tell DH. So he would get up for his turn thinking that I was getting up later, but in reality I was getting a full night's sleep.
this is so sneaky... but yet, so FUNNY! haha!
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Re: confession time
Some times I skip the wipes too on both my 2u2.
And I eat chocolate every day most days three times a day!! Also some times I let lo cry if I just have to deal with something or someone else.
I still haven't made any progress on getting my daughter baptized.
It's not that her baptism isn't important to me - it is. But she's the first grandchild on both sides of the family, and I know our families will turn it into a big, stressful ordeal and there will be a huge blowup if we don't find a date that works for every extended family member to come in. Just like our wedding. Ugh.
So I keep ignoring it.
I wish we could just have it done on a random Sunday at Mass with just us and her Godparents, but that's not going to fly.
I am thrilled the DH helps with the baby, especially in the mornings when we are in a rush to get out the door to work/daycare, but I am secretly jealous/mad that he has all this "time" to play with her while I am running around like a mad woman getting bottles together, pump together, me dressed, LO dressed, lunches made, clothes ironed.
Also, when I am alone and AFTER I have BF/pumped, I will go outside on occasion and smoke.
I haven't taken 'month' pictures...ever...with either girl, oops! But I am slowly becoming a fulltime photographer (waiting until I am done nursing) and I am constantly taking pics of the girls.
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I pretend not to hear LO poop in the morning. After I changed her sleep diaper and feed her, she always poops again, and I just let it stay there for the short drive to daycare. We're usually about to leave the house anyway, so I pretend it happens in the car.
The first sentence made me LOL!
Exactly.
As for my own confession, I shower every other day, and sometimes I skip shaving if I am home alone with LO. I put him in his bouncer in the bathroom doorway, and keep my shower door open to watch him. I have about 10-15 minutes max with him in there and not getting fussy since he's outgrowing the thing. I take loooooong showers and can only do so when DH is home to watch LO.
This is my guilt too...
Same here. I try it about once a week now that I am back to work. And then it is just a couple of minutes if at all.
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LOL. I have done this too with my DD. If she pooped or peed a full diaper right on our way out the door to daycare I pretended it happened on the way too. Hey, when your in a hurry who cares.
I am not doing great with this either. I am sure I can find a couple minutes in my evening to do it but I really am busy every second it feels like. When we do get a breather to do it, DS gets cranky because he wants to go to bed. We do it more on weekends when there is more time. He still hates it though.
My second confession: Work feels like vacation. I'm on easier projects than before maternity leave. And, I'm happy I'm at work he's in daycare. I felt like a bad SAHM at the end of my leave. I was always guilty I didn't get anything done around the house. I felt like I needed to cook from scratch every night keep it clean. But I'd rather just play with care for DS. When I was doing one, I always felt I should be doing the other. Now that I'm back at work, I miss him a TON, but I am paying people to care for him, play with him, etc. The daycare ladies love him, and take good care of him. The house is still a wreck, we eat frozen crap for dinner, but my guilt over it is nonexistent. I'm much more cut out to be a working mom than a SAHM. And I'm glad he's in daycare because as he grows he'll learn social skills, and we love that he is around children of all ethnic backgrounds. My child is mixed race.
DD is a tummy sleeper too. She can now roll from her back to belly on occassion, but she's been sleeping on her tummy for a month now.
DD has slept on her belly from the time that she turned 4 weeks. She went from 20 minute naps to 2 hour ones.
She's always had a pretty strong neck and could turn her head while on her belly by then, so I wasn't too worried.
I don't think they start getting fun until at least a year. I'm not a newborn person. I love the 18 - 24 month age. The difference in my DD from 15 months to 18 months is night and day.
I still wear my maternity pants on occasion...they are just so much more comfortable. Sometimes I wish I was pregnant again for the sole purpose of having a good excuse to wear maternity clothes.
Also, if DD is asleep in her carseat from the drive home from work/daycare, I sometimes leave her in her seat in the middle of the floor to nap while I get dinner started and some other things done.
This one was from before DD started sleeping through the night. DD used to get up twice a night, and since DH gets up earlier than me, he would take the first feeding and I would take the second feeding. This way he could get back to sleep for a few hours before getting up for work. Well at some point DD only started getting up once a night, and I didn't tell DH. So he would get up for his turn thinking that I was getting up later, but in reality I was getting a full night's sleep.
this is so sneaky... but yet, so FUNNY! haha!