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someone stop me

ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
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from going on to my old BMB to see what people are up to / where I would be if I wasn't here instead.

why am I a moron? am I the only one who does this?

Please tell me a funny story that will make me laugh. thanks! 

BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
Back to normal business December 2012
BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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    jenn0021jenn0021 member
    You are not the only one who does this. I think we are all guilty of it. Sending you some ((hugs)), sorry I dont' have any funny stories.
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    weaslewamweaslewam member
    I do it and then IMMEDIATELY regret it! Step away from TB if you're curious about your BMB. Go drink a lot of wine instead and knock your head into the wall. You'll feel about the same as if you lurk on your BMB!
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    kread8kread8 member
    I did it once and it felt so surreal and put me in a huge funk for a while.  Now even worse - and more shameful - I keep going to the May 2013 BMB and looking at the posts.  Someone stop me... 

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    M/C 7/8/12

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    BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!

     

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    Kellmp923Kellmp923 member

    You're not a moron and you're definitely not alone. I sometimes check on Wednesdays to see the HDBD pictures just to see what I might have looked like at this stage. It's pretty painful.

    Lets make a deal. You don't check today & I won't either. We'll deal with tomorrow, tomorrow.

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    ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
    imageKellmp923:

    You're not a moron and you're definitely not alone. I sometimes check on Wednesdays to see the HDBD pictures just to see what I might have looked like at this stage. It's pretty painful.

    DUDE. that's the post that made me sad this morning

    thanks for the funny stories and pictures.

    animated GIF's are also awesome.

    stepping away from feb 13..... 

    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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    April!April! member
    imageKellmp923:
    You're not a moron and you're definitely not alone.nbsp;I sometimes check on Wednesdays to see the HDBD pictures just to see what I might have looked like at this stage. It's pretty painful.
    Lets make a deal. You don't check today amp; I won't either. We'll deal with tomorrow, tomorrow.


    I do that too. Sigh. Why?!??!

    I like your deal. Let's make a pact, ladies. No more BMB checking until we're KU!

    I'm guilty of looking at the May 2013 board too. Did anyone see the post from the woman who said "Just DTD, now I'm waiting for my BFP." Really?!? Really?!?
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    BritsyB8BritsyB8
    I am guilty of this too....I check both of my previous BMB's on an almost daily basis. It's torture. And I do it to myself. Sigh. I hate that we are all in this position.
    TTC:Off BCP December 2011. BFP #1 January 16, 2012; EDD September 12, 2012; m/c Feb,1 2012. BFP #2 June 6, 2012; EDD February 11, 2013; diagnosed with blighted ovum/had D&C July 12,2012. BFP #3 October 20, 2012; EDD June 29, 2013. BabyFruit Ticker Sunshine_zps3fcf529f
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    kread8kread8 member

    imageApril!:
    imageKellmp923:
    You're not a moron and you're definitely not alone.nbsp;I sometimes check on Wednesdays to see the HDBD pictures just to see what I might have looked like at this stage. It's pretty painful. Lets make a deal. You don't check today amp; I won't either. We'll deal with tomorrow, tomorrow.
    I do that too. Sigh. Why?!??! I like your deal. Let's make a pact, ladies. No more BMB checking until we're KU! I'm guilty of looking at the May 2013 board too. Did anyone see the post from the woman who said "Just DTD, now I'm waiting for my BFP." Really?!? Really?!?

    Yeah I saw that post and was doing some major eyerolling... I know I was naive the first time around with my pg, but I wasn't THAT naive. 

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    behapy2daybehapy2day

    I've been really good about avoiding the BMBs like the plague; however, it's a lot harder now that we've pretty much hit September and are approaching my first EDD. It's super emotional to think I could be having a baby this month.

     

    Just don't look!

    He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.

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    xconf143usionxxconf143usionx member
    I used to go on mine once in a while. I had to stop when all of the other mom's began giving birth though. For some reason, I found the tickers and bump pictures tolerable. But I couldn't stand looking at all of the babiy's face and wondering what mine would have looked like.
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    funny bunnyfunny bunny member
    [insert Megaphone voice] STEP.AWAY.FROM.THE.BMB!!
    Hon you are not alone. Curiosity stirs me there every once in a while, and the result is almost always moping around for a week or so feeling sorry for myself.
    If you can, just have a drink or start at this for a while instead:
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    KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    I do this occasionally.  Honestly it makes me more angry than sad b/c some of the crap they complain about is super lame. 
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    HoolahZingerHoolahZinger member

    I don't even go there. I know I would just be a mess for the rest of the day on top of wanting to post and say they are all a bunch of whiners. Just thinking about it makes me upset! 

    Here's a lame joke for you: I should be the first president because with all this laundry, I'm WASHING-a-TON!

     ::does a little dance, looks up, blank stares, runs away::

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