Ugh. It is not doing good things for my mental state. The only reason I'm not completely freaking out is because I didn't have a dream like that when I actually did miscarry.
Anyone else have a miscarriage dream?
"My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we'll change the world." - Jack Layton
Oh yeah. When I was pregnant with my son, I had a dream like that and it seemed so real. I woke up believing it had actually happened. It really put me in a bad mood all day.
I have those dreams quite often, and I hate it. They have slowed down this last week simply because I've been SO ill, it's like my body is constantly reminding my brain that I'm pregnant.
I hope yours get better soon. I think they'll slowly start to subside the further along we get.
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I had a loss dream last night too. Scared me a bit but I was able to poke at my belly a little bit to get LO to move and got some relief. For some reason, I was nervous during the 1st trimester, I was able to find some relief during the 2nd trimester when LO started to move, but now that I am into the 3rd trimester the worrying has begun again. It's frustrating and scary.
=BFP#1 11/2009, It's a boy! 3/2010, Our Angel Ian born sleeping 7/3/2010 (cord accident 37w5d);
BFP#2 1/2011, mmc confirmed 2/24/2011, incomplete natural mc so had D&C 3/11/2011;
BFP#3 6/19/2011, natural mc 6/21/2011;
BFP#4 7/15/2011, no hb at 7w5d, D&C 9/7/2011;
BFP#5 2/6/2012, baby boy born on 9/27/2012
Yep. They used to be worse where I would wake up in a panic and was terrified afterwards. I still have them every now and then. I had one the other night where I was sticking things into my uterus in an attempt to block my cervix so he's forced to stay in there.
BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11
BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12
BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed" 4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13
BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15
"Darling don't be afraid. I have loved you a thousand years. I love you a thousand more."
I have one every couple of months. Three so far. They are so awful! I think my imagination is far stronger than I ever realized. I am praying that they go away!
I've had several! My take on it is that it is your brain/mind working through it's worries and fears so that you can go on to a healthy/happy pregnancy without dragging all your fears along. It's like therapy !
I have had m/c dreams...but I am prone to nightmares and night terrors. They suck! If it makes you feel better, my mom says that dreams are usually the opposite of reality...so if you have a m/c dream, you WON'T miscarry. It may not be true but hey, it comforted me!
Re: Had a dream last night that I miscarried :-(
I have those dreams quite often, and I hate it. They have slowed down this last week simply because I've been SO ill, it's like my body is constantly reminding my brain that I'm pregnant.
I hope yours get better soon. I think they'll slowly start to subside the further along we get.
BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11
BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12
BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed" 4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13
BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15
"Darling don't be afraid. I have loved you a thousand years. I love you a thousand more."
I have had m/c dreams...but I am prone to nightmares and night terrors. They suck! If it makes you feel better, my mom says that dreams are usually the opposite of reality...so if you have a m/c dream, you WON'T miscarry. It may not be true but hey, it comforted me!
((hugs)) I hope you feel better soon.