I gained about 30 lbs and the first 20lbs came off within the first month. I have pretty much been the same every since. I tried not to worry about it too much during my ML because I just wanted to focus on getting used to my sweet girl and spending time with her.
Now I go back to work in a week and nothing nothing absolutely nothing fits! I have to buy a whole new wardrobe just to be able to go back to work. I might give myself one more month to get used to working again and fall into a routine but then I need to get to steppin.
Just wondering if anyone else was in the same boat as me. I guess I expected it all to come off pretty quickly since I am EBF but that definitely wasn't the case!
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I gained 35 lbs and lost 20 ish. Nothing fits me and I am not happy about it.I feel like even if I am back to my PP weight that nothing will fit b/c my bones moved. My hips and rib cage are wider...
On the other hand, I EBF and don't want to mess up my supply by dieting - and I am constantly hungry.
But even still, none of my prepregnancy clothes fit. My hips are wider. I bought a pir of jeans 2 sizes bigger than my previous pants. My boobs are enormous. I went from a D cup to a 32 H. H!!!! So either my old shirts don't fit or they aren't really BF friendly. Not to mention how difficult a 32H is to find!
DH was on vacation this past week so he took me out shopping for new pants and new bras and panties. Honestly, even though I got only 1 pair of jeans and 1 really pretty nursing bra, I feel so much better about myself. I also got a haircut last week and painted my nails. I feel like I'm getting around to a new normal.
Yeah - I'm right there with you. I gained 45 lbs during pregnancy and lost about 20 of them and now I'm gaining some back despite starting to exercise... boo. I also EBF and am worried about supply so I've been eating whenever hungry which apparently is not working for me. too bad.
Sadly, I have an interview that I have to go to and so I need a brand new suit...bleh. I went out shopping today and I've gone up 4 sizes! Just depressing. My bff just had her LO 1 year ago and she said that her hips are still shrinking so maybe there is hope that the bones will shift back to a more pre-pregnancy position? or maybe that is just dreaming...
Anyway - you are definitely not alone... consignment stores here I come!
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I gained 36 and have lost 21 just through breastfeeding. Now I've just rejoined Weight Watchers to lose the remaining 15. I'm also EBF and haven't noticed any dips in my supply. WW has a special plan just for nursing moms and takes all the extra calories and nutrients into consideration.
Just wanted to say though, I'm happy to take my time and do this slowly. Trying to get back to pre-pregnancy weight by the end of American maternity leave standards is just way to fast IMO. I went back to work in the UK when DD was 8mo and that was my goal. I didn't do a think during the first 8 weeks. Then I took it slowly and walked everywhere and did a low impact aerobics class with a friend one day a week. By eight months, I was back to my pre-pregnancy weight and kept it off until I got pregnant this time around. I keep telling myself to "Remember the tortoise. Slowly and surely!"
I am so glad we are having this convo and keepin' it real, ladies! A few weeks ago, I feel like someone else posted a similar thread and everyone was all, "Oh, I totally lost it, plus another 15 pounds, and my boobs have never looked better" which pretty much made me want to kick someone.
I gained 43 lbs while preggo and I have lost all but 5 now. I have had a really hard recovery from the birth so I haven't been able to exercise until this week (I have been using our treadmill to dry clothes, sigh). But even though I am only 5 lbs heavier than I was, nothing fits. I have been this weight before (it's about 5 lbs over my normal range) and able to wear these clothes-- I feel like the entire midsection of my body is super doughy and gross. It's super frustrating.
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