TTC after 35

Ugh.... whta now

My temp dropped to below cover.

My BHCG as of Tuesday evening was 6.

Went to my GP today for follow up PAP test about 3 hours ago.

Now I'm spotting.  Except I'm not sure if it is:

a) AF has arrived - wooh hooh; or

b) PAP causing spotting (which has never happened) except that this is the first time I've had one after a MC before AF. 

Also, dr wants me to come for face to face discussion of results which has me spooked because that never happens here.  We usually get some letter in the mail from the Government.  So, what did she see down there?

I am a crazy cancer-recurrence-phobia woman.  Help.

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BFP#1 04/12/201
1 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013

IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......

Re: Ugh.... whta now

  • I have nothing insightful to say other than to stay positive! hopefully it's nothing to worry about and is AF!
    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
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  • I really hope that you can make an appointment SOON so you don't have to guess and worry about what the doctor has to tell you...especially with your health history.  I wish I had an answer...let us know what you find out. 
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  • I am booked for 2 weeks from now for results when she get's back from vacation.

     DH told me to calm down.  The Dr at the ER 3 weeks ago was in there looking around for a good long time and he didn't see anything untoward.  DH thinks it is either old blood from MC or just spotting after PAP.

    DH thinks I"m a mad crazy hatter.  

    He is probably right. 

     

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    BabyFruit Ticker

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers  Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Breast Cancer diagnosis 12/01/2010 - Survivor and Cancer free as of 03/22/2011
    BFP#1 04/12/201
    1 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
    BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
    BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
    IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
    BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013

    IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
    1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
    1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
    IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
    1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
    1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......

  • Well ususally if it's something bad they want to see you right away and not two weeks later so I'm sure it's nothing big.  Regarless, driving yourself crazy with worry will do you no good so just breath.
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
  • I agree with the pp that if they are willing to wait 2 long weeks to see you--it can't be BAD.  Hang in there and think good thoughts!
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
  • Thanks everyone.  After DH's comment about ER doctor having practically had his head up my wahoo for an hour and not having noted anything abnormal.  I had no rational argument to suggest that GP could have noticed anything visually yesterday. 

    So, I am back from spiraling catastrophizing trip down insanity lane. 

    All's good. 

     

     

     

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    BabyFruit Ticker

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers  Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Breast Cancer diagnosis 12/01/2010 - Survivor and Cancer free as of 03/22/2011
    BFP#1 04/12/201
    1 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
    BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
    BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
    IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
    BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013

    IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
    1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
    1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
    IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
    1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
    1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......

  • It can't be too bad if they are letting you wait 2 weeks for an appointment.  But it must be driving you crazy.  Maybe you can call and talk to a dr who is covering your regular doctor so you do not have to wait two weeks.  Any doctor can read the results right?
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