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an article (pertaining to advocacy kindof)

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https://www.chron.com/opinion/outlook/article/Multiple-pregnancies-need-special-care-1593388.php I just got off the phone with DHs aunt who made me cry b/c she thinks i need to accept and trust that they know what they are doing and that if they are not referring me, it is because they know what they are doing since they are the professionals and i am.just an internet reader. I.should not have even told her anything except she is in the state and i thought ahe may have suggestions....plus she lost her first baby @42 weeks ...but she is an ex-nurse and she said i needed to work.within the sytem etc etc...she said i was going to piss everyone off and burn all my bridges and nobody would take of me if i keep.this up. She said they give crappier care to the annoying know it alls. Then i found this article (and i shared it on fb just because) and i feel slightly better...and less crazy. I am nkt wanting anything extraordinary. I.need to keep this as my mantra, because they are wearing me down, but i am not crazy to want early and frequent monitoring....
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  • mysteriousmommymysteriousmommy
    Your DH's aunt sounds like a real piece of work.  You are absolutely NOT crazy for wanting more monitoring and specialized care during your multiple pregnancy. YOU are the best advocate for your babies and yourself and if you are not getting the care you think you need then you should find another healthcare team. 
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  • mars724mars724 member

    I read this article. And I think I took for granted how through my obgyn was. I never saw an mfm but had lots of ultrasounds to measure growth, cervical length, amniotic fluid, and monitor my well being. After 32 weeks I had once a week NSTs and also saw my OB once a week. 

    I think you need to find a doctor that understands your needs. 

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  • E&RMommyE&RMommy

    The author (Moise) is a HUGE name.  He's one of the big fetal surgeons.

    Who cares what others say.  Push for care you want for your kids.  If an ob/gyn denies you an MFM it means they haven't done enough twins to see the really difficult cases.

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