I'm just starting to wrap my head around the thought of carrying twins. To be honest, between that nausea and my stomach being in knots, eating is just a chore. In the past three days, I've lost three pounds.
And now I'm starting to worry I'm not doing enough to keep this pregnancy healthy. I'm at a normal weight and with DD I gained 35 pounds. Everything I read seems to say between 35-50 is where you need to go with twins.
What's the right rate . . .how many in the first trimester, second etc.?
And any suggestions of what I can eat to get more nutrients? Are any kind of shakes okay? I just can barely look at food.
Re: What is recommended rate of weight gain . . .
Most MFMs have you see their nutritionist who will help you with both food and supplements (Ca/Mg/Zn).
General rule of thumb is 20 lbs by 20 weeks or 24 by 24.
Even with vomiting or hyperemsis, most MoM are able to gain at least 35 lbs by the end. Recommended is 35-50 for the pregnancy.
Protein rich foods help more than anything (nuts, tofu, meat, dairy, etc).
I only gained 3 lbs by 14 weeks and by 20 weeks I had almost gained 20 lbs. I did not really change my eating habits. The weight just came.
Good luck!!
There are so many different opinions on how much you "should" gain.... but every last one of them changes depending on what your body type is (are you under, over, or normal weight, is that weight primarily fat or muscle build, do you have diabetes or no, are you exercising more or less than before pregnancy, etc etc). The "recommended" weight gain is anywhere between 25 and 50lbs for most mothers of twins (3+ and the numbers change).
As a borderline obese woman at the start of my pregnancy, I am currently 3lbs lighter now than I was 10 weeks ago because I've improved my diet and exercise for the babies, as well as had all kinds of weird fluctuations because of ovarian cysts. My babies, however, are not only on target, but measuring ahead of schedule for almost every ultrasound.
Work with your MFM, OB, and nutritionist to know how much *YOU* need to be gaining and what kind of a routine you should have in place.
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Focus on getting protein with just about every meal, and incorporating healthy fats. Above all, listen to your body. If you're still hungry after a huge meal, EAT! If you get full after a half portion, stop. You'll be hungry again shortly thereafter
I started the pregnancy with about 10 extra pounds on me, and so far I've gained 23-24 lbs (lost a pound this week, grrrr) at 33 weeks. My gain is on the lower side for twin moms, but I also started out a little heavier so it balances out. My boys have been consistently growing right on track and my doctors are happy with my weight gain.
It's so easy to worry, but ultimately the babies will take what they need from you, even if it's at the expense of your own body fat stores. It's important to aim for good nutrition not only for them, but for you, since they get top priority nutritionally during the pregnancy. Talk to your doctor about it if you're not seeing an MFM and he/she will have good suggestions for how much you should aim to gain and how to achieve that in a healthy way. You're going to do great and grow beautiful babies!
The book When You're Expecting Twins, Triplets, or Quads by Dr. Barbara Luke is something I actually spent a few hours today reading... I just wish I had bought and read it sooner! I like how it breaks everything down and explains the source/research behind the numbers and rationale.
My CNM and MFM both told me that I would gain whatever my babies needed me to gain and not to focus on a number, but after reading this book it makes me think I'm not gaining enough - only 7 pounds and almost 19 weeks.
From here on out, I'm just going to focus on following some of the guidelines to up my calories/nutrients in a healthy way and hopefully the weight will follow...
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