Finally

So as of today, my divorce was finalized. Because our schedules are ever-changing we decided to make our own supervised visitation schedule (XH has decided to be more flexible, so hopefully all goes well), and don't have to deal with court anymore, yes!

 I guess I'm sharing so that others coming along can see that you may go through A LOT , but in the end, as long as you keep what's best for your child first and foremost, you will be okay. I thank all the ladies on this board for all your help, and you may hear from me again as I'm sure I will have bumps along the way lol, but its possible to get through it all. 

Wishin' you all, all the best!