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How am I supposed to get KU when...

danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
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... I have ILs who stress me out to the max?!?

Can I tell MH that his family sucks and is risking our chances of TTC? *sigh* 

They are an epic saga of selfish crapola that makes me want to have a hairy coniption every time I have to deal with them. His sister is the worst of them. I can't even ignore them because I cannot ignore that they take him for granted and hurt his feelings on a regular basis. He has gotten so much better at doing less for them, now that he sees how selfish they are, but it still hurts to watch them regularly crap on him because he loves them and wants them to be the kind of family that my sister, brother, parents, etc. are. And the kind of family that he deserves. 

I hope it rains and is incredibly buggy all weekend where they're camping (without having asked him to join them). And I hope their animals all take huge craps and vomit all over the apartment on the last day that we have to take care of them, after MH has left them for the last time. @sshats.

[This vent brought to you by the letter "S" and the number "0."]

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                           Me:39  MH:39 
DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • LlamamamaLlamamama member

    My wish for your IL's is that they come home to a leaky underground pipe that has been the source of drinking water to a small colony of skunks who have befriended an enormous possum who is in dire need of anger management classes.  

    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • AbeilleAbeille member
    imageLlamamama:

    My wish for your IL's is that they come home to a leaky underground pipe that has been the source of drinking water to a small colony of skunks who have befriended an enormous possum who is in dire need of anger management classes.  

    Love this.

    D&W, sorry you have selfish @sshats for ILs. Your husband sounds like a great guy for trying. 

    Me: 38, PCOS/ DH: 37

    DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI



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    BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p

    -Back to the RE-

    3 medicated IUIs, all BFN

    -Taking a break from treatment-

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    D and Llama...I would hate to be your "enemy"...lol. D sorry your dealing with wacko family members. Life's too short for this kind of crap. Glad you are there for YH :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • MrsNukemMrsNukem member
    imageLlamamama:

    My wish for your IL's is that they come home to a leaky underground pipe that has been the source of drinking water to a small colony of skunks who have befriended an enormous possum who is in dire need of anger management classes.  

    Love this!

    DW, sorry you are dealing with crappy IL's.  It's always tough when they are "family", it's not like you can just get rid of them.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    LLama, I like your plan!

    I wish I could just deal with my SFIL-- he may be a bit of a bore, but he would give us the shirt off his back because he recognizes all that MH (and I) have done for the family. He also appreciates what we do-- from making him dinner when my MIL is off playing bingo (you know, instead of taking the $35 from skipping a night and getting MH a birthday present), to taking him to see action movies with us, to getting him a seaplane ride for father's day, to helping him paint their porch.

    Ugh. ILs: can't live with 'em; too big to flush.

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    "You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was." 
            -- Abraham Lincoln
     

                               Me:39  MH:39 
    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3a2798" style="font-size:smaller;" >
    <br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>
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