I am really struggling with what we will do about my job. I know I don't want to keep working FT and really don't think the PT Options at my current employer will work for me right now. We wrap up our annual campaign RIGHT when I would be going on leave, and I feel like I'd be willing to go back for a bit to clean up, notify volunteers of the change in my status and help get the next year started, before leaving to SAH. Did anyone do anything like this? A planned short term return? HOw did it turn out? Also not sure whether I'd find out that it was a HUGE pain and I'd rather have just left.
Re: Did anyone work out a transition plan with employer after ML?
I think it depends on who would be watching your children while you did all this. I probably wouldn't enroll my youngest in a daycare center for a few weeks just to pull her out. If you had a family member to watch while you helped out your former employer I'd probably do it just so you left on a positive note. Even if it ends up being hellish, it's only a few weeks and will be some extra money in savings so worth it I think.
I did do something like this, the only difference being that I didn't know I was going to want to SAH until after the baby was born. I never had any intention of being a SAHM - I loved my job! - until the baby was actually here.
Mid way through my maternity leave, I met with my boss and we decided any part time options I might have considered wouldn't work. I gave my notice, but went back to work part time for a month after my leave would have ended. I trained my replacement, finished up a bunch of pending projects, and made calls to talk the clients through the transition.
I am very happy that I chose to return for that short period of time, it really helped to give me a sense of closure as I transitioned to SAH. My employer was really grateful as well, and it went a long way towards maintaining a good relationship with them, should I ever decide to return to work in the future.
Are you definitely leaving? Does everyone know this?
Or are you planning on announcing your intention not to return during a ML?
I don't see any good reason to leave for 2-3 months, then come back for a couple of weeks to "tie up loose ends." Just tell everyone you are leaving before you go.