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feeling sad

MariJ1008MariJ1008 member
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My dad has been watching DS for the past 3months (almost) and it has been great! Now he is going back to work in September, and I have to find a daycare. I don't want to send him to daycare...now I want to stay home =(
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Re: feeling sad

  • MrsJetSetMrsJetSet member

    I tried to respond earlier and stupid mobile version errored out and I didn't have the energy to retype it on iphone..

    I feel the same way!  I wish I could just stay home.  The good news is that daycare is not evil.  DD actually enjoys the social aspect of it.  She has a little boyfriend in her class.  It is really cute to watch them flirt!  It does get easier to leave them, but it takes time. 

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  • MariJ1008MariJ1008 member
    Thank....I am trying to look at the bright side. And I do want him to have more social playtime with kids. He loves being around kids.I am not to worried about him....lol...it's me. But good to know that it will get easier to drop him off. Maybe it's good to do this now so he can get to knowThe sitters before he develops separation anxiety. I am going today to check out a few places.
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  • MariJ1008MariJ1008 member

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    *hugs* I am having major issues around this too.  I have always dreamed of being a sahm. I just wanted to letcha know that you are not alone in your hesitancy.  I am sorry that you have lost your family members help with daycare.  That is understandible, but still a hard one to let go of.  I'm secretly hoping that my mom will watch my dd for me for a few days a week.  I still have to talk with her about it.  It would be starting back sometime in Oct.  

     Yes it is difficult, because I was so comfortable with him being with my dad, and my sister, and sometimes my brother was home to. So I was completely fine with going to work, and knowing he was doing great! Now I feel like I am going to be nervous in the beginning when I drop him off.

    But I am looking forward to him having more social time with other babies; whenever we are with other kids and babies, he is all smiles and super playful. So I know this will be good for him, I know he will be fine....I am the one that's going to be a crazy person...hopefully that doesn't linger for a long time =)

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