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N3TR - Help me dress shop?

So ladies, I have a fall wedding at an unusual location (it's a hippie kind of indoor garden & tea house).  I don't want to be "too dress" nor too casual.  I've found these three dresses that I'm going back and forth on.  Thoughts?  I'm a size 14 so I can't get away with some of the dress types skinnier girls could.  But I have a good Bust to Waist ratio that I think these would be good.

Dress # 1:  Red & Black hanky hem https://www.onestopplus.com/clothing/Fit-and-Flare-Beaded-Floral-Hanky-Hem-Gown.aspx?PfId=313726&DeptId=15080&ProductTypeId=1

Dress # 2: Abstract Print https://www.dressbarn.com/detail/abstract-bead-waist-dress/101069564/300

 Dress # 3:  Orange? (Would add Brown Pashmina)  https://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0024198/Monochrome-drape-knit-dress


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  • The second dress is really pretty. That one is my favorite.
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  • #3- best style and price!

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  • I like number 2!
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  • #2! Probably with a cardigan or some sort of cover.

    1 seems a little much and 3 looks like it would show every unflattering hiccup with that jersey material. And the ruffles on the bum makes me think of a peacock.

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    #2! Probably with a cardigan or some sort of cover.

    1 seems a little much and 3 looks like it would show every unflattering hiccup with that jersey material. And the ruffles on the bum makes me think of a peacock.

    That's my fear of dress #3 - that it's "jersey" so like a t shirt? That doesn't seem right for dress material... If it wasn't for that I think it would win...but I am leaning towards #2 as well. 


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  • I like No. 2! I think it would define your waist well and has a flattering neckline/hemline contrast to draw the eye. 
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  • Another vote for 2! Have fun at the wedding!
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  • I like the style of #3 better, but I think #2 would be more flattering, especially since it's a print.
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  • I was leaning towards 2 or 3, but I see the point about the material of 3......either one is worth a try though!
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  • Really like #2!!

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  • # 3 wouldnt load for me but I like #2. Perhaps with a shawl or something. :-)
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  • I really like #2. I like the pattern and detailing at the waist. I would definitely pair with a cardigan or pashmina in case you get chilly. Have fun at the wedding!
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  • I was going to say #3 but given the point about the material I would go with #2. Have fun!
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  • I really like #1, but like PP said - for your event I think #2 is the best choice.
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  • I like #3 best.
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  • I really like # 3. If flaw-showing is a concern with the jersey, maybe you could get the black one and use a pretty and bright scarf/pashmina with it?

    I've had some jersey skirts that are really nice and flattering, but also ones that have put an arrow to every odd lump. I think a lot of it depends on the individual fabric/item, and there is no way to know that until you see it in person. 

    I didn't look at the shipping policies...is it an option to buy #2 and #3 and then return one? If so, that would be my choice. What looks good on the rack is never what looks good on me, and vice versa. 

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  • I vote for #2 with some sort of pashmina or wrap I think it would look really cute!
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