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Tussie Mussie
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BFP #2 - MC Aug 2012 - D&C w/ complications
Sad Goodbye
Tussie Mussie
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I guess despite holding out a hope for goodnews today, I had a feeling this was coming. My HCG levels had dropped, and the U/S showed what was barely left of the yolk sac.
I did not want to have a D&C, and I didn't think I could emotionally handle letting it happen naturally so I opted for the cytotec to hopefully speed up the process. The pain and anti-nausea meds they prescribe with it scare me. Not knowing exactly what to expect scares me. The waiting scares me. I'm sad and numb and incredibly thankful for my daughter.
I really enjoyed the time I got to spend with you ladies.
BFP #2 - MC Aug 2012 - D&C w/ complications
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Re: Sad Goodbye
August '16-January '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI/TI = BFN
February/March '17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = BFN
April '17: Menopur + HCG + TI (due to too many mature follicles) = BFN
May '17: Took off due to cysts
June' 17: Menopur + HCG + IUI = Cancelled due to 8+ mature follicles
November '17: Clomid + HCG + IUI= BFN
December '17: Menopur + HCG + TI= BFP!!!! Due August 2018
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BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
I am so sorry ((Hugs)).
My m/c was natural, so I'm no help on the Cyotec. I didn't have any nausea, but the pain for me was like really, really bad period cramps. Not so bad that I would have gone back to the ER, but in hindsight I should have just taken some drugs. (At that point, the ER wouldn't confirm a m/c, so I was still afraid of hurting the baby). Don't be a hero, take the drugs.
When you're ready, I recommend the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board, and eventually the Trying to Conceive After a Loss Board. They were so helpful in my emotional healing process.
((Hugs))
BFP 4/18/12, M/C 4/27/12 at 6w6d
BFP 7/1/12 - Counting down to our little girl, EDD 3/8/13
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It's a girl!
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This is good advice. I found those women very helpful when I went through my losses. It made me feel less scared and less alone. ((Hugs))
BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12
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BFP #2 - MC Aug 2012 - D&C w/ complications
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I am soo sorry for your loss. I have been there and it sucks. I would strongly advise you take the pain meds the same time you take the cytotec. I was soo glad I did, because it gives you some pretty strong cramps and there is no point in suffering any more than you already are.