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FET lining dilemma

I had another monitoring appt for my FET this morning.  Keep in mind that my tentative transfer date was today.  My lining is 6.5 mm and my RE wants a minimum of 7 mm.  So, now I go back on Wednesday and will hopefully start PIO for an 8/26 transfer.  So, here's the catch.  I'm an idiot and thought a trip to Vienna would be a nice distraction after the transfer.  My flight is 8/28.  I'm cutting it way too close for comfort.  Hopefully my lining will look good on Wednesday but if not what would you do?  Cancel the cycle?  Cancel the trip?  Or go ahead with the transfer knowing my chances are lower?  My RE said he would normally cancel at that point but since I have 14 frosties he's leaning towards going ahead.  Thoughts?   Why, why why did I plan this stupid trip?  It seemed like such a good idea at the time.

After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
No heartbeat at 10w6d
FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
It's a boy!
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Re: FET lining dilemma

  • I would go with what W.itz says.  Only reason I would cancel is it might but make your trip not as enjoyable.

    Vienna would be so fun...have a great time!!

    I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
    3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
    Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome
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    I would go with what W.itz says.  Only reason I would cancel is it might but make your trip not as enjoyable.

    Vienna would be so fun...have a great time!!

    The FET is definitely the priority.  I completely trust him but I hate to transfer under less than ideal circumstances.  It's $4K, you know?  Is 6.5 really that much different than 7?  I don't want to google it because I will end up driving myself crazy.

    I assumed I would know if FET worked right before my trip.  I knew I'd be excited if it worked or drowning my sorrows on wine tours if it didn't.  I'm just praying that everything looks great next week but who knows.  I've never had lining issues. 


    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
    My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby

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  • Me either until last cycle.  They had me insert estrace vaginally at night.  RBA requires 8.  I think you would be at 7 by Monday... if you look good wednsday can they do the transfer friday?
    I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
    3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
    Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome
  • I'm doing 2 per day orally, 2 vaginally, and the Vivelle. Because they were frozen on day 5 I have to do PIO for 5 days, I think.

    How many days did you end up doing Estrace?

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
    My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby

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    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I would want my lining at a 7, but u have a bit to get there.  Mine jumps fast, so it can happen. 

    I would cancel vs transfer if the lining is not there.  But if u get to 7, I would do it.

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  • Thanks Vanessa! Just crossing my fingers that it gets to 7 so I don't have to make a decision.

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
    My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby

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    BabyFruit Ticker
  • That is sooo frustrating! No great wisdom here, but I hope it will reach 7mm ASAP so it will be a moot point. I always struggle with not letting IF take over my life and my plans vs. not compromising my cycles...it is hard!
    IUIs #1-3 (1x unmedicated, 2x Clomid) = 2 BFNs, 1 m/c at 7w3d
    IUIs #4-6 (injects) = 3 BFNs
    IVF #1 = BFN
    FET #1 = BFN
    FET #2 = BFN
    IVF #2 = BFP, b/g twins lost at 20w due to partial abruption/PPROM
    IVF #3 = c/p 5w2d
    Long-shot Clomid/Prednisone cycle before next IVF = BFP, our beautiful, healthy girl born 6/26/13!
    ~~
    TTC again March 2014
    FET #3 - May/June 2014
    -
    all embryos arrested before xfer - back to the drawing board...
    IVF #4 - July/August 2014 
    beta 1 (11dp3dt) 220, beta 2 (13dp3dt) 671, beta 3 (19dp3dt) 10762
  • No experience or insight to offer, but really wishing that you didn't have to face the contemplation of such decisions!  Hoping that your lining cooperates and the decision-making goes out the window.  Keeping my FX for you and sending lots of plump-lining vibes your way!
    TTC since honeymoon in 9/2010
    Me: 39, Dx DOR (FSH = 10.5, AMH = 0.43, best AFC = 10), AMA
    MH: 37, Dx Obstructive Azoospermia, multiple successful sperm retrieval procedures

    1/2012: IVF/ICSI #1 Antagonist = cancelled d/t poor response to max stims
    2/2012: IVF/ICSI #2 MDLF (4R, 4M, 1F) = BFP, saw heartbeat, missed m/c 9w0d, D&E
    8/2012: IVF/ICSI #3 EPP/MDLF (7R, 2M, 1F) = BFN

    12/2012: (New RE) Operative hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue

    1/2013: IVF/ICSI #4 Low-dose stim/Antagonist (AFC=6); ER=1/26 (5R-couldn't access rt ovary, 5M, 4F), ET=1/29 (trans 3) = BFP!; 2/11 beta#1(13dp3dt)=2127, 2/13=3367; twin girls due 10/19/13

    PAIF/SAIF very welcome!

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  • Ugh. I hope you got some new information to help you with this decision. Good luck.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
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