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POAS in a tent (our BFP story)

My partner is pregnant!

This is our fifth cycle TTC and we decided to test "late" to mitigate disappointment, so we waited until her period was two days late and temps remained high, which happened to occur during our camping vacation.  I sent her out into the woods with a cup to collect FMU and she brought it back to the tent for testing.  Testing in the pre-dawn hours by flashlight while camping among a huge group of your best friends was pretty amazing.   When we got a positive Wondfo, I also dipped a CBE digital, because, let's face it, if you're going to run around waving a pee stick in the air, it's just good manners to use one where you can put a cap back on the pee end!

The happy news spread like wildfire and it was an incredible and beautiful experience to share the news with (literally) hundreds of lesbians (we were at a lesbian music festival).

We're almost at six weeks, which is especially poignant b/c we've had two chemical pregnancies (cycles 1 and 2) and we've never made it this far.  My partner feels great, if a bit exhausted, and we're looking at an April 15 due date.

How we did it:  at home ICI with unknown donor sperm

What we did differently this cycle:  my partner gave up wheat gluten (on suspicion of Celiac Disease) and followed "The Fertility Diet" (from a book with a scientific basis).  At the time of insemination, I had her do specific exercises to open her cervix and relax it (techniques from Ina May Gaskin's book). 

The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.

Re: POAS in a tent (our BFP story)

  • Congratulations!!! And what a great story!
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  • Congrats!  I loved that story!
  • YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY! Big Smile

    Love the story! 

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    Congrats and Yay Yay YAY!!!

    What an awesome experience for you guys.  I've been waiting (not so patiently) for your news.  SOO glad to see this, this morning.

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • Congratulations! Very cool story :-)
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  • Congrats!  That is way too cool!  So glad it will be such a memorable experience for you two.
    M & M
    06/12 - BFP!!!!
    Beta #1 15dpo - 256
    Beta #2 18dpo - 1097
    6wk U/S on 07/02 ~ TWINS!!!
    EDD 02/21/13
    09/10/12 Found out it's two Boys!!!! Sam and Jake
    Jacob and Samuel born 1/29/13 at 36 weeks. photo F489900B-BB44-4C44-ACD1-ABB73509E3B2-9032-000005E7AE7EF53E.jpg Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • great story! congrats!!
  • Awesome news!!!! So excited for you guys!
    IUI #1 (50 mg clomid and ovidrel) - BFN
    IUI #2 (100 mg clomid and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IUI #3 (Gonal-f and HCG trigger) - BFN
    IVF #1 - 21 retrieved, 20 mature, 15 fertilized (ICSI), 2 d5 blasts transferred, 8 frozen - c/p
    FET #1 - BFFN
    FET #2 - BFN? c/p? Either way no baby
    FET #3 - No shock...BFN
    FET #4 - BFN :-(
    Surgery and TTC cancelled - pursuing surrogacy
    7/31/12 Surrogate got a +HPT!!!! BabyFruit Ticker
  • Congrats, congrats, congrats!  Another Minneapolis baby, woo hoo!
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  • OMG!! What WONDERFUL news! Congratulations and here's to a very happy and healthy nine months for you both! 
    IUI #1 - 10 April 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #2 - 05 May 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #3 - 05 July 2012 unmonitored and unmedicated with RE 
    IUI #4 - 30 August 2012 medicated and monitoredLetrozole and Ovidrel Trigger 
    IUI #5 - 27 September 2012 Letrozole 
    BFP! 9 October 2012 Betas:- 12DPO 16; 16DPO 96; 18DPO 315

    Baby Alarico born on 28 June 2013!!


  • Congrats!! Nice story!!
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  • And it just dawned on me that my partner proposed marriage in that very same tent, same campsite exactly five years prior!  There's magic in the woods!
    The word you're looking for is SEX.  I promise.  No, it's not gender.  It's sex.  You're welcome.
  • I can't even *sleep* in a tent!  Congrats!
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • Congrats!!! What a great way to big this next adventure :
  • Congrats, what a fun story, we are avid outdoors/camping people, I love that all of these big life events are happening in tents! You better keep that tent around :)
  • hlkehlke member
    Congratulations!  Love the story and that it happened at the Michigan Womyn's Festival - how wonderful!  Best wishes for a happy and healthy 9 months to you both.
    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
  • What a great story!!

    Congratulations!!! 

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