which from what I understand is basically people not following the warnings. do people like these things?
I didn't register for one but got one as a gift. I was thinking of returning it today as I have the gift receipt. But figured I'd ask if folks really like them?
Re: Bumbos - aside from the recall issue
BFP #1 12/02/11, M/C 12/08/11
BFP #2 04/06/12, DD born 12/20/12
BFP #3 06/09/14, M/C 06/15/14
I have several friends and cousins who have one and love it. They say it's a great way for the baby to strengthen their back and neck muscles when learning to sit up. You just have to be careful not to put them in it too early, which would cause stress on these muscles and, I believe, is what leads them to tip over. But like you said, use some common sense and stay within arms reach of your infant, and that shouldn't happen anyway.
The only problem I've ever heard is that if the baby has really chunky thighs, they can't use it for more than a couple of weeks.
I'm a FTM but I had a four month old for 10 days last december (family emergency for best friend) and I used it a LOT for him. Thats when my love affair started.
My sis in law used it with my nephew for months and months (she would put him on the bath mat in the bathroom so he could sit and watch her shower).
The mentioned best friend above took it home and it used it for about 2 weeks until her son started throwing his head back and flipping. So you do have to fully watch your child and the chair success depends on the child. However - for kids who like to sit up and watch and play with toys and aren't into throwing themselves to the side or to the back forceably - it can be a great tool when used correctly.
I wouldn't pay the $40 for one - My "family" (close friends / parents / brother / etc) have 3 we pass around and each one was bought for $10 or less at consignments.
My daughter never used it. She would lean sideways and twist her way out of it. Total waste in our house, she sat propped up in the Boppy with an extra pillow. Borrow from a friend if you can, I don't think you use it for a very long time.
I would return it, they aren't used for a long time
BFP 11/30/14 EDD 8/13/15
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Baby 2 EDD 7-18-14
DD #1 born 4/1/2012
My Married Bio
Hee hee! I feel the same way about my little chunker!
DD #1 born 4/1/2012
My Married Bio
Jan17 Sept Sig: Pumpkin Spice gone too far
Baby #2 due 8/17/17
Return it for now, test it out when your LO is ready and then decide.
DS #1 hated it