My husband is military. we will be PCSing sometime in December we think. When should I tell my boss/coworkers? There is another girl who is pregnant in our offive and there was talk of doing a baby shower for us. I don't want to wait till the last minute to tell my boss and leave them scrambling for a replacement, I don't want to tell them too soon either because until the Army writes his orders, nothing is set in stone. I don't think my job would fire me over this, I just don't want to seem like I was holding out for the baby shower and then I split. When is a good time to let everyone know we're leaving?