So today I went to a new mom's group that was set up by a local online parents' network. There were about 5 moms there. It was OK and not totally uncomfortable, but I just didn't really connect with anyone.
I know I need to make some new mom friends, but don't want to waste my time with these sort of fails. If only some of you Bump gals lived near by
Has anyone here tried some random new moms' social events, like meet ups, classes, etc.?
Re: New Moms' Group
I tried looking at meet up but there was only 1 moms group near by and it was mostly people with toddlers =[
Its hard trying to find new mom friends. For me since I'm a 23 y/o SAHM any moms I find are usually in their mid 30's. A 10 year gap isn't resulting in any new friends
I'm feeling pretty alone since we moved quite a distance from my old friends... And none of them are even married.
I am 23 as well. The 2 mom friends I have are older which isn't a bad thing in itself but I don't have a whole lot in common with them besides baby so that's tough.
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3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
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It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
I think a baby and me swim class would be fun. What age is it okay for babies to go in the pool?
Thanks! We have public pools around here that are indoors so that would be perfect.
I went to a picnic/meet and greet for a mom's group through a friend's church. You don't have to be a member of the church to join and there are tons of babies my sons age (yay!). They meet every other Thursday so I am taking Thursday mornings off from work from here on out.
Try the library too. Our library does story time every Tuesday.
My hospital has a new moms group for moms with babies under 6 months, and a graduate moms group for babies about 6 months - 1 year. I just tried it for the first time a few weeks ago, and am really enjoying it. They meet once a week, and while I won't be able to attend after I go back to work (or at least not often as they meet during the day), I've met some great ladies, and a couple of them live near me, so we're planning to get together soon outside the group. I'm so excited as I don't have any mommy friends near me with little babies.
Have you tried looking up something like the stroller strides classes? Or LaLecheLeague meetings? Or maybe there's a cloth diapering store near you that has mommy meetups? Or maybe a church that has a MOPS group?