We're camping and she needed to nurse her DS. She went outside and about 5 mins later came running in screaming about the bugs. I'm not a bug person either, so I understand her fear.
HOWEVER....
She held her DS up and said, "Someone take this stupid baby so I can't make sure there are not any more bugs on me."
My mouth dropped. I didn't think I heard it right and needed to ask family after she left. But, indeed, that's what she said.
It's so sad. I've lost all respect for her.
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gross.
I get being stressed about bugs and about camping in general...especially with a baby. But come on.
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Wow. I hope it was a joke...a really "stupid" joke on her part but I hope she's not that mean on purpose. And I hope she never calls him that when he's old enough to know what it means. STUPID fertiles irritate me.
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This makes me so sad. It would have been very VERY difficult to not say something (or smack her).
There's no excuse for that. Ugh, I want to vomit. Sorry you had to be around that kind of behavior. And I feel even sorrier for that kid. If that's what happens over a bug, what's going to happen when the kid is throwing temper tantrums?
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Yes, I do think this. I don't think she realizes it yet. I did with both girls and I'm thankful I got help when I did. With that said, she is a spoiled rotten woman - who's husband didn't bat an eye when that was said. Shame, shame.
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