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cinnbabi21cinnbabi21 member
in June 2012 Moms
are there any first time mom's that is finding it hard to go back to work of school??? school for me starts next Wednesday and I'm afraid that i won't be able to concentrate.   (not ready to leave her side yet)  Crying

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  • thatoneredheadthatoneredhead member

    I go back tomorrow (and the chick I relieve has the cajones to ask me to come in an hour early- that was a resounding no)

    I only work on the weekends, but oh my word. My mom will have him, but Im still heartbroken he wont have me. I do want them to have a great relationship and obviously I survived, but Im still so nervous. He needs him Mama.

    Im also nervous because I draw blood- yeah haven't done that for a few months so I hope my first few patients are easy! 

     

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  • jamiah18jamiah18 member

    I am having horrible anxiety about leaving her! My school year starts aug 27, I'm going back for the first week to meet students and then taking 5 weeks off but I am literally already losing sleep over it. 

    Someone wrote in a post earlier this week it's quality, not quantity, that is important when parenting so I'm just tryng to keep telling myself that!!

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  • thatoneredheadthatoneredhead member
    imagejamiah18:

    I am having horrible anxiety about leaving her! My school year starts aug 27, I'm going back for the first week to meet students and then taking 5 weeks off but I am literally already losing sleep over it. 

    Someone wrote in a post earlier this week it's quality, not quantity, that is important when parenting so I'm just tryng to keep telling myself that!!

    you know, thats a really good point. I think the break will make me love on him more and be more mindful with my time with him. 

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  • drbethcdrbethc member

    I have been dreading going back to work and also contemplated staying home for the first year. However, I went back to work for a few hours this week, and to be honest, as soon as I got back to my office, It felt nice. It was nice to start seeing patients again. 

    I decided to go back to work only part time until Jan to make the transition easier. Honestly, it's not being away from LO that makes me not want to go back to work, it is being able to trust that I have good reliable childcare that is what stresses me out the most. 

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  • acbfreireacbfreire member
    imagedrbethc:

    I have been dreading going back to work and also contemplated staying home for the first year. However, I went back to work for a few hours this week, and to be honest, as soon as I got back to my office, It felt nice. It was nice to start seeing patients again. 

    I decided to go back to work only part time until Jan to make the transition easier. Honestly, it's not being away from LO that makes me not want to go back to work, it is being able to trust that I have good reliable childcare that is what stresses me out the most. 

    I'm only going back PT too, contemplating SAH the first year ... never though I'd say this.

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  • SugarhillHnASugarhillHnA
    It was super hard for me to go back to work after DD was born. I ended up reducing my schedule to a four day week. I have to go back in two weeks after DS and I already dread it. I don't think it will be quite as bad as last time, but it's still going to suck and I can't reduce another day because I lose benefits and we aren't quite ready for the additional pay cut yet. 
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