https://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/05/fashion/untying-a-birth-mothers-hands-modern-love.html?src=recg
I saw this article and though it may be of use to some of the ladies here, especially with international adoption and open adoption.
Once we know where we are going to live we may be joining you as well.
Best wishes to you all!
Re: article: Untying Birth Mother's Hands
This. That article is really well written.