Baby Shower Help

Hi Everyone.  I currently live out of state but I'm originally from CT.  I will be having my shower in CT since that is where all the family is from.  Can anyone recommend any locations in the Glastonbury and surrounding areas that would be a good place for a shower?  We are looking for a place with a banquet room to hold about 35 people and for them to take care of everything, food, clean up ect.  We are also tossing around the idea oif having it at a house and having it catered so any recommendations for cateres would be greatly appreciated as well.  I'm not planning my own shower but I am helping find a place so any ideas would be greatly appreciated.  Thanks in advance!