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any of you do gender selection where you can choose to implant a specific gender?

would like more info on this process?  and not sure where to post this ?

Also if you have multiples already and then have another child  what did you feel was the right gap or age difference?

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  • TaylorandMelTaylorandMel member

    We did not choose the gender, this wasn't even given as an option.  Though I don't know if we would have done it if we could--we just used the 2 best embryos which worked out for the best.

    Mel and I have been discussing the if/when to have another.  We're debating between starting right now, and waiting until we each finish our next degrees (in 2 yrs).  We do have a limited amount of sperm tho, since our donor is retired.  So, who knows if a LO#3 will even happen.

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    same here we have limited amount of sperm and I am AMA so my fear is I will be too old to give my eggs to M to use and lastly, MONEY ....
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  • leapgirl8leapgirl8 member
    We didn't do IVF but I just wanted to add that most clinics in the US will not do sex selection for IVF unless there is a medical reason (i.e., trying to avoid a genetic disease).  
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  • KershnicKershnic member
    To add to Leapgirl, I have read that a few will also consider sex selection for families who already have a child of one sex and want the opposite, which I think is what J wants.  But it is a hotly debated ethics issue.  Your first step would be to find out what if anything your IVF clinic (or others you'd consider using) allows.
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  • JoySeattleJoySeattle member

    To help further your knowledge and ability to discuss this with your (potential) REs/IVF clinic, it's called pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD or PIGD) or embryo screening, for prenatal sex discernment.

    The wiki page actually has some good, and fairly clear, info.

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  • 2moms2twins2moms2twins

    Thank you all for your input and information. 

    I know it may seem selfish but there is back story that I just dont feel like going in to it.  Also,  i am just trying to figure out and make an informed decision for my family- I have my own issue about it and again I am just trying to figure out  what is right for us.

     

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