I know lots of you ladies love moby wraps. I am trying to like the looks of it, but after watching demo videos on youtube, I still feel like I want something less complicated (even though I'm sure the moby would get easier to use with practice).
So I was thinking of either the baby k'tan or the mei tai. My main desire for the wrap is to use it during the newborn stage, as I'm getting a hand-me-down Ergo that I think we'll use when baby is bigger. But I definitely want more of a wrap style for the first few months, as it looks more snuggly for baby and less bulky (compared to the Ergo) for me to wear around the house. I want something easy for me to put on by myself, when DH is at work. Obviously, I want something that I feel baby is secure in.
I don't know if this makes a difference between the two, but I am a short and petite person, so want something that fits me well. I realize the k'tan is ordered to size, and that's totally fine as I'm not envisioning DH baby wearing while LO is a newborn.
So k'tan or mei tai? Or other recommendations that would meet my needs of something easy and snuggly for a newborn?
Re: k'tan vs mei tai
You can definitely get more use long-term out of the mei tai, but like you said you're just looking for something for the newborn period. I think the k'tan would probably be better for just that purpose. Also, you'll be due in the winter & the fabric does get a little warm but you probably won't mind since it will be so cold out. I've never personally used a k'tan, but I've seen them in action & it does look like a slightly pre-wrapped moby so that's what I'm basing it on.
We have plenty of options over here for carrying, but I've never liked ergos personally. I know tons of people love them though. We mostly used wraps 0-4ish months, mei tai 4+ months (though you could use for NB), & then kinderpack/ssc beyond maybe 7 or 8m. I used ring slings throughout. Carriers get addictive! I love them each for different situations or depending how we're feeling that day. FWIW, MH has a couple carriers & I can count on one hand the number of times he's worn DS. The ergo should fit you both though.
I should add, I wish I had gotten a k'tan instead of my moby, it is a pain to wrap no matter what anyone says and that prevents me from using it. Yes, I'm fast at it now, but it's still a pain!