TTC After a Loss

FYI it's not even safe to answer your phone anymore!

I just got a call from a telemarketer-type person asking if I was interested in taking part in a group discussion about getting pregnant and the desire to get pregnant. WTF? How is this even a thing?

But this doesn't beat the time that 2 days after I found out about my m/c, I got a call from our insurance company trying to get us to un-cancel our pregnancy insurance policy that we had just signed up for. And he kept badgering me about why would I want to cancel, since the policy is free? And I told him I had a miscarriage and hung up. He felt bad and called back to apologize. But I mean come on, why else would someone cancel free pregnancy insurance? 

 

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TTC #1 since Sept 2011
BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
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Re: FYI it's not even safe to answer your phone anymore!

  • Ugh. I'm sorry you had to get that call. I would be mad and hurt.
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  • I would ask to speak to the manager and give him/her an earful. 
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    Yikes...sorry for the craptastic phone calls!
    BFP #1: 12/26/11, EDD 09/05/12; m/c discovered: 02/22/12 @ 12w u/s,
    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
    Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
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  • Makes you wonder how its even possible for them to be in business. One would think that a pregnancy insurance company would be familiar with this reason for cancelling! Ridiculous. 
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  • Thanks ladies. I'm actually ok, just really annoyed, but since I'm pretty sure I'm out this cycle, this was just the icing on the cake. Ugh.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
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  • Yuck! It should at least be safe to answer your phone!

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    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
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  • ((Big hugs)) I'd be hurt answering my phone and getting those too.

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    Pleural effusion, Kidney Failure
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  • That does suck i am sorry. I still get calls from cord blood registry even after I told them not to call me back. Its annoying!
  • Dang it, what a tool. I'm sorry you had to go through that
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  • OMG, what a turd face - of course that's the only reason to turn down free coverage. I'm glad he called back to apologize though! Kind of restores my faith in humanity... a little.
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  • Wow, the cord blood calls sound awful. :-( luckily I haven't had to deal with that. 

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
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