I don't know why, but for the last few days I've just been unable to shake the feeling that this baby is going to come before her due date. Maybe it's my subconscious nagging me to make sure I get everything done. Or the fact that of course I have a ton of stuff at work in the days leading up to her birth, so an early arrival would not be ideal. Or maybe it's that I already feel enormous and like she's running out of room in there with every jab. But I'm nearly convinced she's not going to stay in there until 9/14. Anyone else just getting a strange sense like this?
Re: Anyone have a feeling they'll go early/late?
Yep, I keep feeling like he will come early. I don't think it will be drastically early, but before my RCS date.
ETA: I never had a feeling with DS, but this time I've been having this feeling for a few weeks now. DS was born the day after his due date as the result of an induction. He certainly wasn't ready to come out, but his movements had decreased drastically and my OB was concerned.
Funny you should bring this up... the past few days I've had this crazy nagging feeling that our little guy will decide to make his grand entrance before 9/10.
I can't quite put my finger on why I'm feeling this way... maybe it's because my mom delivered me at 37 weeks, and my grandmother had all her children early too... so perhaps subconsciously I'm thinking I may follow suit? Who knows...!
Either way, I know that baby will come when he wants to and there isn't much I can do about it
So I'm crossing my fingers and toes that I at least make it to term, lol.
With DD I was positive that I would deliver late and yep, she was born 9 days after my due date. I think that I'll be late this time too, but more like 5 or 6 days past due. If she makes her apperance early I'll be shocked.
I had that "gut feeling" I'd be early with DS - who was induced a week late.
I have the same nagging feeling I'll be going early with this LO and have chosen to ignore it and believe I'll be induced or at least late - again.
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I've been (naively) convinced he is going to come on time or a day early/late(due 9/21). As much as I want him out sooner then later, due to comfort/anxiety etc. This whole pregnancy I have wanted a c-section (for different reasons that are underlying), but I keep telling myself that if I go vaginally I guess I am going to have to deal with it and he comes when he comes.
Well at the last appt, the dr said something about taking him early via c-section due to being 2wks ahead of schedule (my doctor doesnt allow women to go past 41wk due to fluid levels) and size of the baby, that's when it hit me, I could have this baby as early as Sept 1. My only want right now, other then a healthy baby is a SEPT baby. I hope that my body and this baby can at least hold out until then.
ETA: also the 21st is my BIL bday and I don't think my sister and him are doing well in their marriage so I don't want this LO to be a constant reminder for my sister is something does happen between them.
I'm a FTM, so I'm kinda mentally preparing myself that she will be late. Many of my friends went anywhere from 1-2 day up to 11 days late with their firsts, so it's what I'm used to.
Unfortunately, I'm an only child and was a scheduled c/s around 38w5d, so I have no idea whether I would have been a few days early, on time, or late, so I can't use that to gauge anything.
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With DD, I knew the exact date of ovulation, etc. and I was contracting (small ones) when I went in for my NST on my EDD (which was 5 days earlier than what I was estimating).
It's frustrating not having that exact science with this LO, but she's been measuring 9/29 since the very beginning, so I'm going with that. My official EDD with the doc is actually 10/5, but I went with measurements and stuck it out with you guys. I need to mentally prepare for October, but I don't want to.
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For a while, I had a feeling that LO was going to be early.
Lately, though, my feelings have changed and now I'm convinced he's going to be a 10/1 baby. I don't know why that date kinda sticks with me, but it does.
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I don't have a strong feeling with this one. DS was 5 days late and he barely wanted to come out even then.
I'm mentally prepared for this LO to be late, which I am okay with for several reasons. One of which being, I'm not ready to have two children!! lol. (also a lot of work reasons etc.)
So therefore, since I'm so ready for him to be late, he'll probably be early.
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Same here! The only reason I'd want her to come early is to possibly be born on my grampa's birthday, which is 10 days earlier than her due date. I don't want to set myself up for disappointment, so I'm telling myself she'll be late.
I'm fairly certain he'll come early. He's already tried once and I'm still having semi-regular contractions. We'll see if anything has changed on Thursday at my appt.
My grandmother has 2 early babies. My mom had one term baby and then two preemies.
We'll see.
Same here mnkate. All of my siblings, me, MH, and his siblings were late. I'm due the same day as you but I have a sneaking feeling she'll be just fine in there until October. I don't mind (right now). I'm trying to practice my patience. I've been measuring right on track each week minus one where I was measuring a week behind so who knows.
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With that in mind, and the fact that I never got close to my EDD/was surprised when I went into labor, I am kind of assuming that this LO will also be a little bit early. This could clearly be setting myself up for a very long last week or so, but oh well. I still estimate earlier than EDD of 9/28.
Because I'm high risk, my perinatologist kept saying he just wants me to get to 34 weeks and then I'm golden. So, I think all along I've expected to go early b/c of that. But, now that I'm almost there... I feel kind of torn. For some reason I'm expecting to go into labor at any moment. But, deep down I feel like I'll go 5 days past my due date.
I'm thinking late.
In part because I think my due date is actually 4 days before what it was based on my ovulation chart. And because an extra handful of days gives him extra time to figure out how to move head down.
Based on my history, I am almost certain this girl will be coming early. I'm just hoping to get to 37 weeks! My doctor's have even mentioned induction at 39 weeks, so I definitely won't go late!
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I'm pretty convinced she'll come early. Granted, I have an irritable uterus now so I'm having contractions weirdly already.
I was convinced DS would be late and he came at 41.5 weeks. Not that that means anything besides the fact that I followed a statistical average.
With my history, yes, I'll probably go early. My own Dr thinks I won't make it to 39w.
I was in L+D on Sunday.
The end is getting near. My goal is to just make it to Sept.
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I keep having dreams that baby comes really early, and it's freaking me out.
When I logically think about it, I expect to go late, and I'm just hoping that baby comes in September instead of October.
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I've noticed the past few days that I've been getting this "feeling" that he's going to come early.
I'm guessing it might be partially due to my DD coming four days early. I was so set on her coming on her due date [1-11-11] because I liked that date, and I was shocked when I went into labor and had her 1-7-11.
Also, I'm starting to get a little anxious because I feel like I still have a lot to do before DS gets here. I was way more on top of things the first time around. This time I kept telling myself all summer that there isn't much to get ready since we just did this not too long ago. Reality has sank in though. I finally scheduled my maternity pics, and am planning on packing my hospital bag today. I just finished moving the straps on my infant carseat, and put the newborn insert back in. I keep feeling like I'm going to forget to do something, and will be kicking myself when I'm home alone with a toddler and a newborn and am trying to recover from the birth!
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DS came the day I turned 37 weeks and my doctors seem to think this baby will be early too.
I, on the other hand, feel like because DS #1 came early, this guy will stay put until my RCS on Sept. 12th. Which would be hard for me since I really want to try for a VBAC and need him to come before that to do so.