TTC After a Loss
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My SIL
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Is pregnant. Due three weeks after I would have been. They didn't even want a baby, they weren't even trying. It's my husband's twin's wife. We have to fly home for my other brother in law's wedding in two days. It was going to be hard enough and now this. They feel terrible..we feel terrible for not being happy for them right now. I have no idea what to do right now. We aren't even close; my SIL and I have always been a little ambivalent towards each other. I am about to lose my *** over the unfairness of it all.
ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
BFP #2 10/12- CP
BFP #3 1/13 - CP
BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow
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Re: My SIL
All of this. I'm pretty sure that everyone in my town is either pregnant or a new mom, because it seems like that's all I see when I leave the house anymore. ((hugs))
"there is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world"
BFP #2 2.27.13 EDD 11.8.13 Grow, baby, grow!
My Ovulation Chart
~ all ALers welcome ~
This a million times over- so sorry
TTC #2 Since October 2011
RE testing results: DH- normal ME- DX:PCOS and One copy of MTHFR gene
IUI#1 Sept/Oct 2012-Follistim, Ovidrel, Metformin, Baby Asprin, Lovenox, Crinone, and Neevo Beta 10/24=BFN
No 2nd IUI but instead TI with Metformin, Baby Asprin, Neevo and Prometrium
BFP #4 5/4/13-EDD 1/19/14- grow little one, grow!
Beta #1@15DPO HCG-95, progesterone-25 Beta #4@24DPO HCG-2498, progesterone-30, 1st U/S 6mm,133BPM 2nd U/S 1.6cm, 167 BPM
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~*~*~*~Everyone Welcome~*~*~*~
BFP #2 9/5/2012 -- Born 5/20/2013 -- Welcome, rainbow baby!
BFP #1 1/24/12 -- No HB 2/16/12 -- Misoprostol 3/10/12
EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves
I'm so sorry you have deal with this. It's hard to hear those BFPs (especially initially afterwards). All your feelings are perfectly normal. Unfortunately, as most of us are at that time in our lives, we will be bombarded by other women getting pregnant as we are mourning our loss.
PS. As a curteousy to others, please add a "pregnancy mentioned" warning. It give others the opinion to skip a post mentioning pregnancy if they are having a bad day.
BFP #1 - 01/12/12, EDD 09/12/12, Medical Induction @ 21 weeks 05/03/12
BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
Dx: Incompotent Cervix
yeah i forgot the warning because i'm so god damn traumatized right now. did i mention that THEY DONT EVEN WANT A BABY?!? it's totally *** ridiculous. i hate everything about this and that we all have to go through this and even need warnings about other people's pregnancies. its so stupidly unfair.
yeah i forgot the warning because i'm so god damn traumatized right now. did i mention that THEY DONT EVEN WANT A BABY?!? it's totally *** ridiculous. i hate everything about this and that we all have to go through this and even need warnings about other people's pregnancies. its so stupidly unfair.