ETA: I should also mention that I'm not planning on these names. Personally, I'm not a fan of not gender neutral names for girls--- but very obvious masculine names.
My name is just ambiguous (Erynn - feminine spelling, with boys sharing the same pronunciation). Even with such a totally "either way" name I got years and years of "That's a boy's name" and constant roll call confusion with boys in my classes.
I don't give a damn how much I like a name. My girls all have distinctly girl names, my boys will have distinctly boy names. If they want to change them when they get older, I will have no objections. I just won't give them ambiguous or opposite sex names intentionally.
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I'm in the minority over there. I like gender neutral names, tend to find overly feminine names to definately not be my style, and overall don't really feel strongly one way or the other what other people name their kids (obviously as long as it's not something super crazy- at that point I'd feel bad for the kid). I don't think naming your kid something gender neutral (or even a straight up boy name for a girl/ girl name for a boy) is going to scar them for life.
Though, Johnny Cash disagrees with me in the song "Boy Named Sue" (I'm not super old, DH just loves classic country lol)
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My daughter is Ryann, so I'm obviously not against it. Some names I don't like on girls, but a lot of people hate Ryan (Ryann) for a girl so I try not to judge. To each their own.
I think it's whatever you feel suits you. However, I did read an article that girls with gender neutral names get better jobs nowadays since you submit your resume online more than anything...so it helps out in that department. My neices have gender neutral names, Jordan, Kendall, and Alex and I think it suits them just fine.
It really depends for me. I have been a sub before and made the mistake of assuming the gender of the child based on a name (off the roll sheet) and embarrassed the kiddo. That was awkward for both of us.
I'm not against them, but I'm not necessarily for them. There are so many names that people consider inherently girly now (Ashley, Whitney, Shirley) used to be boy names before something in popculture changed that. *shrug*
I'm not against them, but I'm not necessarily for them. There are so many names that people consider inherently girly now (Ashley, Whitney, Shirley) used to be boy names before something in popculture changed that. *shrug*
I was going to say exactly this.
We won't use them because they aren't our style personally but I have a girlfriend named Ryan, a niece named Elliot, and two friends with daughters named Charlie. Many girl names used to be predominantly boy names.
I think people are stealing perfectly good boys' names and throwing them on poor unsuspecting female babies. The boys' named are ruined and the girls are stuck with boys' names. I always think about poor girls named Ryan that meet a guy named Ryan. As a couple, that would be ridiculous.
I mean, I never see any mother of sons naming their kids "Sabrina" or "Madeline." I always wonder why these mothers are so disappointed that their kids are girls. I mean, they must be or they would give them girls' names. A girl can still be strong and smart and independent without having a boy's name.
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I personally wouldn't name my girl a boyish name, although I am called Alex (real name Alexandra). Maybe I've heard "Your name is a boy name" too much in my life, so I don't want that for my child but hey everyone is entitled to their own opinions!
I wouldnt use Kyle... but Ryan and Dylan i would... I know people who have daugthers with those names... Ryan is spelled differently though. She spelled it Rian.
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I think it depends. Ex. - If we were on our last child and H REALLY wanted to name a child after him, I would consider it (if it was a name like this). I don't think I'd use it just to use it, though. And even still, I'd probably try to talk H into making it her middle name.
In the end, these names aren't completely off the wall, so I wouldn't hate the idea of them being used like some other 'names' that are out there.
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NO.
My name is just ambiguous (Erynn - feminine spelling, with boys sharing the same pronunciation). Even with such a totally "either way" name I got years and years of "That's a boy's name" and constant roll call confusion with boys in my classes.
I don't give a damn how much I like a name. My girls all have distinctly girl names, my boys will have distinctly boy names. If they want to change them when they get older, I will have no objections. I just won't give them ambiguous or opposite sex names intentionally.
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What about Kennedy, Taylor, and Tyler? I think those are cute boyish names for girls. I also like Reggie for a girl
We found out we were having a boy with my first and were set on Hayden - We decided that if he came out a she we would have named her Haydenne.
I'm all for general neutral names - Keeps things interesting~!
I'm in the minority over there. I like gender neutral names, tend to find overly feminine names to definately not be my style, and overall don't really feel strongly one way or the other what other people name their kids (obviously as long as it's not something super crazy- at that point I'd feel bad for the kid). I don't think naming your kid something gender neutral (or even a straight up boy name for a girl/ girl name for a boy) is going to scar them for life.
Though, Johnny Cash disagrees with me in the song "Boy Named Sue" (I'm not super old, DH just loves classic country lol)
All in! I'm Franki, real name Frances. On my list far girls are Charlotte/Charlie, Josephine/Joey.
I also like initial nicknames.... CJ, JJ, JD.
I love boys names for girls!! DS#2 is Cameron & if #3 is a girl, she'll be Greyson.
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I was going to say exactly this.
We won't use them because they aren't our style personally but I have a girlfriend named Ryan, a niece named Elliot, and two friends with daughters named Charlie. Many girl names used to be predominantly boy names.
I think people are stealing perfectly good boys' names and throwing them on poor unsuspecting female babies. The boys' named are ruined and the girls are stuck with boys' names. I always think about poor girls named Ryan that meet a guy named Ryan. As a couple, that would be ridiculous.
I mean, I never see any mother of sons naming their kids "Sabrina" or "Madeline." I always wonder why these mothers are so disappointed that their kids are girls. I mean, they must be or they would give them girls' names. A girl can still be strong and smart and independent without having a boy's name.
I think it depends. Ex. - If we were on our last child and H REALLY wanted to name a child after him, I would consider it (if it was a name like this). I don't think I'd use it just to use it, though. And even still, I'd probably try to talk H into making it her middle name.
In the end, these names aren't completely off the wall, so I wouldn't hate the idea of them being used like some other 'names' that are out there.