I see everyone posting about taking their Lo to the zoo, museums, playgroup, etc. We have a park but with a 32 month old and 6 month old, its almost impossible to go. It's all big kid slides and stuff with gaps in high up places. The nearest zoo and museums are 3 hours away. There is no playgroup. My question is, if anyone else lives in an area like this, what do you do with your Lo? We've taken my son to a bounce house once and a discovery playhouse once, but that stuff gets expensive.
Re: Anyone else have no entertainment in town?
I normally just lurk here but I've got some ideas that might work so I'll come out for a minute.
Do you have a library nearby? Most libraries offer activities and readings for LO's at least once a week for free. Also, have you tried taking nature walks? The 6 mo old could ride in a stroller while the 2.5 year old walks and collects pine cones, acorns, leaves, etc. Also have you checked Meetups.com to see if there was a group in your area? Surely some other mama is as frustrated as you!
I'm sorry you're getting frustrated! I hate days when I'm cooped up in the house with both of mine. No fun!
I live in an area like this! I don't do a thing with her, and I just hate it. I have been looking all over for play groups, get togethers, something, but it just doesn't exist. We don't even have a Local Bump Board for my area- the closest local board is more than 3 hours from here! (Which incidentally is also where the zoos and museums are).
I would love to hear suggestions too!
We've also been known to wander around pet stores (bonus if you can find one that has employees who don't care if you pet and hold everything), feed ducks at the lake, plant flowers and veggies in the yard (with no expectations of the things surviving), and we go to all kinds of carnivals and festivals around town.
Our bounce house and play places are cheaper then our zoos or museums, so I guess even if you had those they would be out.
You can create your own play groups. I did when we lived in a small town. Go to the library, or play grounds at schools.
This is us. Our library has story hour but that's it. It's also 3+ hours to a major city, no bounce house or anything. We have a YMCA and I am seriously considering membership. My little one loves the water. We also have a handful of smaller parks but it has been mid 100's here lately and 55% humidity at least...way too hot to be out. :-(
Start a playgroup on meetup.com and/or put notices up at the library, stores etc. Do you have a community association? That's a good place to start. Mine has a few weekly meetings for SAHM's and playgroups.
I agree the bouncy house stuff can get expensive. However to me it's worth it. DD has a favorite one we go to weekly. I have met many moms there too!
Our YMCA has a daily toddler drop-in gym. Lots of fun and free with membership. Do you have a mall? Does it have a play area?
I guess I'm lucky there are so many things close to me and DD!
Olivia Kate is almost 4!
Diagnosed with autism this year and doing great!
Thanks. I will have to look into that. I'm not sure if ours has that but maybe they have something?
Oh, that's tough. If I didn't have a car, there is literally nothing I could do. We don't even have a park within walking distance.
Is there any way he can take public transit? Or can you drop him off/pick up a couple days a week so you can have the car?
Or maybe you can find a cheap beater car that he can drive to work?