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TTC After a Loss
NJMom050911
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~~*Lost February Love Bugs Check In*~~
NJMom050911
member
This is a weekly check-in open to any and all ladies who have had a loss with an EDD in the month of February (any year). To all the new ladies, welcome to the group. I am so sorry for your loss, but glad you can find support here. Tell us about yourself and join the conversation
Current Members
amyrdz522 - }Aster{ - EDD 2/2/12
jobiann - EDD 2/2/12
loves*green*mlkglass - EDD 2/3/12
SeaBlue73 - EDD 2/3/12
Chame90 ? EDD 2/4/12
sabrina69barnes - EDD 2/4/12
StephRN23 - EDD 2/4/12
AustinBride06 - EDD 2/5/12
dfduke1221 - EDD 2/5/12
miblue - EDD 2/5/12
becky515 - }Addison Lila{ - EDD 2/6/12, born sleeping at 21w3d
tiffanyings - EDD 2/6/12
mrssoprano - }Faith{ - EDD 2/8/12, born sleeping at 21w on 9/28/11
StephieCR - EDD 2/8/12
erockmomma - EDD 2/9/12
cbentley003- EDD 2/10/12
hopefulheart211 - EDD 2/11/12
dhdana7 - EDD 2/12/12
queens27 - EDD 2/12/12
skooterblenny - EDD 2/12/12
kriskarp - }Mackenzie Anne{ - EDD 2/13/11, born sleeping 11/26/10
LS50 - EDD 2/14/12
MegMeg0913 - EDD 2/14/12
tracyd21 - EDD 2/14/12
jantyme - EDD 2/15/12
nikkks84 - EDD 2/15/12
abbs20 - EDD 2/16/12, }Nathan Andrew{ born silent on 11/17/11
buckeyebaby - EDD 2/16/12
cinciem - EDD 2/16/12
CTumelty - EDD 2/16/12
Jessiebug81 - EDD 2/17/12
starrynight1658 - EDD 2/17/12
groweeames - EDD 2/19/12
babyd617 - EDD 2/20/12
tashpede - EDD 2/21/12
tawniac101- }Teddy Robert{ born sleeping 2/19/12
DianaChristineB - EDD 2/22/12
pb127 - }Baby Boy{ born sleeping 2/23/11
sunsetlove ? EDD 2/23/09
chusum - EDD 2/25/11
jellybirdlover - EDD 2/25/12
Leggett44 EDD 2/25/12
Carolee - EDD 2/26/12
snips_n_snails - EDD 2/26/12
Teenmom7 - }Aubrey Jo{ - EDD 2/26/12, grew wings on 7/10/11
esd - EDD 2/28/12
LuckEinLuv - }Andrew John{ - EDD 2/28/12, passed away on 11/7/11
Millis mom - EDD 2/28/12, lost twins on 8/2/11
NJMom050911 (sweet pea) EDD 02/03/2013
andreamarie77 EDD 02/20/2013
mattsgirl2004 (Love Bug) EDD 02/23/2013
kread8 (Ace) EDD 02/06/2013
ebwhit EDD 02/15/2013 D&S724 EDD 02/16/2013 Hellotarra EDD 02/16/2013 ravenclaw1 EDD 02/22/2013 behappy2day edd 02/22/2013 centralperk edd 02/16/2013How are you feeling this week?
What keeps you going these days?
Wishing BFP's for everyone! And lots of HUGS.
Logan Alexander born May 9th 2011. He has stolen my heart forever.
BFP #2 05/24/12 EDD 01/31/13 D&C 06/26/12 Missing you.
Diagnosed with Ashermans 11/06/12 Surgery 01/18/13, Cleared for TTC 03/01/13 BFP 03/26/13 IT'S A BOY!
Please Be Our Rainbow!
BFP #2 05/24/12 EDD 01/31/13 D&C 06/26/12 Missing you.
Diagnosed with Ashermans 11/06/12 Surgery 01/18/13, Cleared for TTC 03/01/13 BFP 03/26/13 IT'S A BOY!
Please Be Our Rainbow!
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Re: ~~*Lost February Love Bugs Check In*~~
I was due Feb 15th and lost the baby a few weeks ago at 8w 4d. DH and I are still very sad.
Feeling defeated this week. I realized that the hardest part is having had this fabulous purpose every day and having that taken away is so difficult.
DH downloaded all the Harry potter books on audio book and I just listen to them all the time while I do housework etc....keeps me from obsessively googling
How are you feeling this week?
Feeling pretty good this week. Just very impatient for AF to arrive. I keep second guessing and over analyzing everything my body is feeling... (TMI) but my nipples (not boobs, nipples) have been very sore the last two days or so - am hoping that means AF will rear her head soon?! Being on the TTA schedule really sucks (and I only have to wait 1 cycle... so I guess I shouldn't complain!)
What keeps you going these days?
Just trying to stay positive and look forward. My husband has been uber positive about everything so that helps. When I am down I try and talk to him about it and he makes me feel better.
Wishing BFP's for everyone! And lots of HUGS.
Agreed! BFPs for everyone hopefully soon!!!
M/C 7/8/12
Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13
BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!
Please add me to the list. I would have been due on 2/16/13. :-(
How are you feeling this week? I'm doing okay. Trying to keep busy. The post-D&C bleeding finally stopped, and I am now anxiously waiting for AF to arrive. Part of me is eager to try again, but the other part of me is scared to death.
What keeps you going these days? My boys keep me busy. I'm grateful that it is the summertime and we are constantly on the go.
Wishing BFP's for everyone! And lots of HUGS. Same to all of you!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to have your dreams snatched away. I pray that you stay strong. Googling is bad. I had to stop because I was driving myself insane.
I'm waiting for AF too. My body is messing with me since I had AF cramps last Monday and Tuesday and since I felt what I thought were O pains a couple weeks before I thought AF would show up. Nope. This weekend I had EWCM and more strange cramps. I give up on guessing what is happening. I'm also bad and was told to wait 3 months to TTC but we had sex. The only thing that keeps me going is wanting to be pregnant again. With a healthy, sticky baby.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad to hear your bleeding has finally stopped and you can hopefully soon move on to the next cycle. Waiting for AF sucks!
I'm glad your boys keeps you busy. My DS has been my rock.
I have had the same thing! I had weird "period" feeling cramps off and on for a few days so I thought maybe AF was on her way... nope! And I have had increased EWCM as well. I am not charting (I know, I know - if I really want to know what's going on with my body I should chart... ) but according to our "calculations" we think I ovulated over the weekend so no idea what is up with the weird phantom period cramps...
Honestly though, and I'm sure you can relate, I have never been more excited/anxious for AF to get here... I keep telling DH, my mom and sister that I am going to do the biggest happy dance when she gets here for the first time post m/c!!!
M/C 7/8/12
Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13
BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!
Feeling like crap.
Chocolate and cupcakes keep me going.
Edd 2/16/13
The artist formerly known as Sunbird
Read my blog! hellotarra.com
Glad I'm not the only one! I have never wanted AF to arrive this badly. Although I'm secretly hoping that by some miracle I will just get a BFP instead. But either one of these things will make me deliriously happy! Happy Dance worthy for sure!
my EDD was 2/22
I'm finally feeling right. I JUST got back from my followup with my OB and he said there's no need to wait. I'm also pretty sure I'm ovulating/about to ovulate (half a55 charting over here)
I just hope it's quick. I need to get pregnant again so I stop feeling horrible and like a failure. I just want to move on.
he was so nice. I saw another doctor at the practice when I actually had my m/c, and he was a buttface, so it was nice to see the good one again.
I think ebwhit and I need to be bff's, because I've also been rereading Harry Potter too... makes me feel better. It's my escape book. Plus, the olympics are on, which is also a good escape for me
I'm glad this doctor was nice. Hope you get your BFP soon! Hugs.
Please add me to the list. My edd was 2/22/13.
How are you feeling this week? Pretty emotional which is to be expected. I didnt have any bleeding post d&c until yesterday afternoon, but now its arrived along with some pretty heavy cramping.
What keeps you going these days? Knowing we get to move on to RLP testing and hopefully, get some answers. My fabulous husband who is a saint. My snuggly furbabies (see siggy). My mom who is amazing and been my best friend through all of this.
P.S. Do we have a siggy badge for February like the other months do?
ETA: I havent seen one around for February, so I asked Shayliz to make us one. She said she would work on it today.
He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.
<a href="http://s279.photobucket.com/albums/kk121/behapybride/?action=viewthat is awesome. I know feb has one but personally I don't really like it. It's a lovebug that is brown with hearts.
I checked in last week but I think I posted late because I'm at least 6 hours ahead of everyone so if it doens't get posted earlier enough then I see it Tuesday so maybe everyone missed it.
My edd was 2/16/2013
I'm feeling pretty good. I got my first af this weekend which was nice. The dr said that we could start trying if we wanted to right away but I am just not sure I am ready. I am really scary to really try try and then get my hopes up to either see a negative line or get AF. Maybe we will just see what happens this first cycle to see if everything is back to normal.
Keeping me up: I scheduled an appt to see a counselor. am excited about this. I am also starting a new job on Monday and really looking forward to it. It's a great place. I have been getting into running and going for a lot of walks. Exercise is my key getting my mind off things and get those endorphins pumping
I found out my sister is currently pregnant and we would have been 4 days a part. I am feeling okay about it and my sister is very understanding and respectful I just think it would be good to talk to someone about dealing with that and when my niece or nephew comes. I don;t always want to be sad.
(hugs) to those that need them
so sorry for your loss. I think each day gets a little easier and I try to focus only on the short term and not really think to far ahead. I too love HP and have yet to heard them Maybe I will try to get some this weekend to listen to.
OMG- this is the worst. I have got to step away from Dr. Google. The scenarios for RPL are so extreme it could kill me with anxiety.
He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.
<a href="http://s279.photobucket.com/albums/kk121/behapybride/?action=viewThat sucks. My coworker just shared with us that she is due 02/03. Which was my due date (or one of them), she is having Twins. She struggled for years with fertility so I am beyond happy for them that after so many failed IUI and IVFs cycles she is finally going to be a mommy. But at the same time it stings that I have to see her progress the way my pregnancy should be. Big Hugs.