My husband deployed to Afghanistan a few days after we found out I was pregnant. We were trying for about six months before it happened so we were both so excited that it worked out for us since it was literally our last chance before he left. When he left I hadn't gained any weight yet, was in good shape, and worked out often. I am still pretty active and eating healthy and have gained 23 pounds at 33 weeks. The Skype and internet connection haven't been the greatest the past couple of months so he doesn't really know how big i'm getting. I'm just worried that when he comes home to me being nine months pregnant he's not going to be attracted to me. I know it's not like I just gained a bunch of weight for no reason but i'm just worried that since he didn't have time to get used to my body changing so much that he's just going to be really weirded out by it.
I've talked to him about it a little bit but we don't get to talk that much so I don't want to spend half of our phone call whining about what might happen when he gets home.
Does anyone have experience with a similar situation? Any advice or suggestions would help. Thanks so much