m/c @ 5wks

KristySnyder · July 2012

Well My dr. couldn't get me in on friday to confirm that I was pg. However, Stress i think took care of that We had lay offs at my work late friday and I was stressing out all weekend over it. I couldn't eat and got very dehydrated. I started haven bad cramps Saturday night. I didn't think anything of it and Sunday I had worse cramping. When I went to the bathroom Sunday afternoonish I was gushing blood!!!! My mother rushed over to watch DS and I went to hospital. I told them I was pg and believe I am or had a mc. (A VERY PAINFUL MC) To make a long story short they confirmed my fears. I got cleaned out and they said no sex for a few weeks or until I feel comfortable I saw the reg dr monday and he agree that he thinks it was the stress and not eating along with my very low iron count I am on medication and DH and I went out to eat with DS and had a family dinner date last night and he held me while i cried myself to sleep last night! We will try again soon but right now I feel really "empty" is the only way i can describe it I have been crying off and on and to make matters worse my mother works(worked) for the same company as me and I found out she was laid off yesterday after being there for 24 years!!! I have been there 6 years...I go back to work tomorrow and I am not looking forward to it.

I will keep in touch with you ladies and help with any questions seeing I do have DS if you like. But for now I am just BLAH

Good luck ladies.

PinkRoses53 · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))

Haribo1 · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss.

MizMess · July 2012

I'm so sorry

Hugs!

LeLe25 · July 2012

So sorry for your loss.

KristySnyder · July 2012

thanks ladies...i still have ds to keep me happy...he keeps telling me its ok mommy and patting my head

DH tought him to grab me tissues...

5dogs · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss.

MonsterBean3815 · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss.

CCBelATC · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss and the bad news for your mother as well. Sad

You're in my T&P!

SpecialOrder2013 · July 2012

I'm sorry for your loss and it sounds like you have a sweet DS and supportive family to help you through this difficult time.

ChloBub · July 2012

I am so, so sorry. I know that empty feeling; it's just awful. Take care of yourself during this terrible time. Big ((((((((HUGS)))))))). The TTCAL board is amazing when you feel ready.

betheny · July 2012

i am so sorry for your loss. take the time to grieve and take care of yourself. thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie

APrice4UT · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Anne Mommy · July 2012

I am so sorry. My T&P are being sent your way. I'm glad your DS is a sweetie!

SparkleK · July 2012

I'm so sorry.

KristySnyder · July 2012

thanks ladies. I will keep lerking so I can live via-curiously thru ou all and Anyone who has march 25th due date

NBBride05 · July 2012

ChloBub:
I am so, so sorry. I know that empty feeling; it's just awful. Take care of yourself during this terrible time. Big ((((((((HUGS)))))))). The TTCAL board is amazing when you feel ready.

This! I am so sorry. TTCAL is a wonderful source of support. {{{HUGS}}}!

benmel31 · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Good luck to you!

cwelshsm · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss ((((Hugs)))). I found the m/c board to be very helpful, and when you are ready the TTCAL ladies are very supportive. I'm sorry to hear about your mom too.

mrskitton · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

Atleighdan · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss.

ahbEsq · July 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. I previously had a mc at 5 w1d and "empty" was exactly how I described how I was feeling too. I agree with the PPs that the miscarriage/loss and TTCAL boards will be very supportive. Best of luck to you.

ChevyFam717 · July 2012

so sorry for your loss. Just remember that things happen for a reason - if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. T&P - Hope next baby sticks when you are ready.