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New here...having my 3rd miscarriage

NebeanNebean member
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I've been reading all of your stories and it's nice to know I'm not alone.

My DS is 2 and we have been TTC #2 since 11/11.  Our first chemical pregnancy was in February.  I miscarried naturally when I would have been almost 6 weeks.  In June, I got a BFP 2 days after I missed my period, but the test was negative 2 days later and I just got a period a couple days after that.  Now, I am 6 weeks pregnant  and the ultrasound only shows a gestational sac and yolk sac, but my HCG is > 10,000 and the doctor said its a non-viable pregnancy since you should see a HB at HCG level.  Now we are trying to decide what to do.  No cramping or spotting, but I'm terrified of a D&C.

Anyone else here with repeated MC after a successful pregnancy?  Should I wait it out?  I'm just so wiped out emotionally with this happening 3 times in the last 6 months :(.  Looks like we get to see a specialist to find out what's going on.  My OB thinks its a progesterone deficiency.  Any tips on coping? 

  

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Re: New here...having my 3rd miscarriage

  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    I'm sorry for your losses. I have had 3 losses, but no children. Coping for me has been allowing myself to grieve and to take the time to figure out what that means for me. Hugs

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  • ValeriamValeriam member
    Sorry for your losses. Wish you luck!
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member

    I'm so sorry for your losses. I can say that I've had 2 D&Cs and was terrified the first time but when it was all said and done it was a piece of cake, physically. But I understand not wanting to have it done, I wanted to let it happen naturally but it just wasn't in the cards for me. 

    My only coping advice is to keep talking about it. If people IRL don't know how to be supportive then keep coming here. (((hugs))) 


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    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

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