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burgergirl13 · July 2012

So... I use to be very confident in my body... Since ive been pregnany meh not so much... my BF gets pretty upset with me because I tell him i dont feel sexy AT ALL. I think that its really difficult to feel sexy during your whole pregnancy... He thinks that there are a lot of women that feel sexy through the whole pregnancy... if you can help me out, I dont know if im just down on myself or if im in the same boat at you ladies... Thanks[Poll]

mlangs · July 2012

You need an in between option.

I don't always feel it but sometimes I do... most of the time it has to do with him though. HE is the one that always has made me feel sexy KU or not!

sciencefreak1357 · July 2012

I may not feel sexy during the WHOLE pregnancy, but I do most of the time. Just depends who you are. I find pregnant woman very sexy and beautiful but it doesn't always help when you look down and see a giant belly there and you already feel like crap.

My husband thinks I'm sexy no matter what I look like, but I don't always feel it.

SingleMom31 · July 2012

My first trimester, I actually generally felt pretty good and was fine having sex. But, once I started showing, it's been all downhill.

peacelove&mama · July 2012

Now that I have a baby bump and not what looks like a beer gut, I feel fantastic. I love how I look pregnant.

Slightly off topic, but I have this lingerie schoolgirl type skirt that DH loves... he wanted me to wear it last night (pregnant schoolgirl? WEIRD but whatevs)... I could barely pull it up, I had muffin top, and my belly was just kinda hanging out over the top.

I did not feel sexy last night.

MrsT1108 · July 2012

I'm fat pregnant or not. Pregnant, to me, I just look fatter not just pregnant.

MH is the one who compliments me and says things to get me to think otherwise.

rachel21086 · July 2012

burgergirl13:
So... I use to be very confident in my body... Since ive been pregnany meh not so much... my BF gets pretty upset with me because I tell him i dont feel sexy AT ALL. I think that its really difficult to feel sexy during your whole pregnancy... He thinks that there are a lot of women that feel sexy through the whole pregnancy... if you can help me out, I dont know if im just down on myself or if im in the same boat at you ladies... Thanks

BrittanyDoesDerby · July 2012

Blehh. I'm having a lot of issues with worrying how DH could possibly find me sexy as my belly gets larger and larger.

He's nothing but supportive and loving, so I don't know what my deal with this is.

burgergirl13 · July 2012

peacelove&mama:

Now that I have a baby bump and not what looks like a beer gut, I feel fantastic. I love how I look pregnant.

Slightly off topic, but I have this lingerie schoolgirl type skirt that DH loves... he wanted me to wear it last night (pregnant schoolgirl? WEIRD but whatevs)... I could barely pull it up, I had muffin top, and my belly was just kinda hanging out over the top.

I did not feel sexy last night.

I bought something too we will see how well it goes... meh

LittleFish1 · July 2012

mlangs:
I don't always feel it but sometimes I do... most of the time it has to do with him though.

I agree; he does make a difference whether it's him being amorous, or hinting at later activities .... however I've always felt more "cute" than "sexy" (there's a difference to me, don't know about others). With moving from bloated extra tire into baby bump, does help.

In terms of pregnancy & desire though, am not really getting a whole lot of hormone induced "ideas" the last few weeks. First trimester had some, but not the energy to follow through & the nipples were too sore anyway.

Now having soreness/ stretching discomfort has spread to the majority of the action areas, add pressure concerns eliminating the sure-fire favorite positions & needing to pee causing discomfort in the middle of activities .... makes it difficult turn off the brain & enjoy. By the way, after the last time, did NOT feel sexy or cute in any way the next morning - hips and legs were just sore like I had taken the stairs to the top of the empire state building wearing heels.

starlee_99 · July 2012

I don't always feel sexy but my SO tries to make me feel better about myself. Just yesterday I was getting dressed for work and I caught him looking at me and I asked him what he was looking at. He said I'm looking at you belly. It looks good. That made me feel a little better about it. I always tell him I feel fat and he says your not fat. I guess it's just something we have to go thru. Hope you start feeling better about yourself.

LyseeH · July 2012

Not going to lie Mostly No....but there have been a few occasional days where I have felt just wonderful and sexy and may or may not have called the hubs and sent pics to have him come home for work for some fun LOL then id kick him out the door back to work and take a nap.....Never an atnigh when home time its been rare though

MrsLaLaBug · July 2012

yeah, my vote went with sometimes yes and sometimes no. it varies. I think it also depends on if I'm "in the mood" or not LOL

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