Long story short: I stopped dilating at an 8 after 27 hours and 18
minutes of labor. (from the time my water broke to the time LO was
pulled out of me). During my CS, my ob told my husband, midwife and I
that there was NO way DS was going to fit through my cervix. He had a
huge indention around his head from being stuck in my cervix. After that
long of a labor, I was begging them to cut me open and take him out.. I
was put on oxygen b/c lo's heart rate was dipping, my blood pressure
was going up and i was getting a fever. I was having to breath so hard
that the oxygen mask was collapsing in my hand. I thought I was dieing.
LO was 7 lbs and 6 ozsSo, after that labor and delivery, DH and I
decided that future children would be delivered by planned CS.
Well, 11 days ago, I watched my baby sister give birth to her little
boy. she had a vaginal delivery and it was the most amazing thing I
think i have ever seen. Part of me wants to have that experience but the
other part is scared shitless of horrifying labor and having another CS
bc I stopped dilating.
Has anyone else had the baby get stuck issue and have a VBAC?
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Re: baby got stuck? (long) xp from csection
This didn't happen to me but there are PLENTY of people on this board that were told they were not going to be able to deliver vaginally that went on to have successful VBACs. I've never heard anyone been told specifically that a baby couldn't fit through the cervix- usually they say pelvis (the moulding on his head was from your pelvis). Either way, your baby was on the small side so I am betting he wasn't in an ideal position and would have been a vaginal birth had he been (or had the doctors moved you around more to try to shift him).
Every pregnancy is different- everyone on this board had a c/s for one reason or another and many of us were able to VBAC the next.
Well, I dilated completely with DS1, but I pushed for 4+ hours without him coming out or descending very far. He had a huge bruise on the top of his head for a week after he was born. My second son was a VBAC, and was 2+ pounds and inches bigger than his brother. My first was OP (sunny-side up), whereas my second was anterior for most of my pregnancy.
It took me about a year to process my c/s and my son's birth. There was a decent amount of time during that year when I would have had a RCS, had I been pregnant. Even when I was pg with DS2, I worried a lot about history repeating itself with his birth.
Could you possibly have cervical scarring? Or he was in a bad position, like MA said. Start looking around and interviewing providers and see what they say about VBAC, hopefully you can find one who is supportive.
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
I dilated completely and pushed for two hours with my first, and ended up with a c/s because she wasn't descending. My OB told me I would never be able to deliver vaginally unless I had a preemie because my pelvis was too small.
I switched doctors and had an easy, uncomplicated VBAC with my son. He was two ounces larger than my first baby.
Do you know what position your baby was in? A malpositioned baby can lead to failure to progress and cause the baby to get stuck. That was the issue with my first child--she was sunny side up (OP position). My second child was facing the correct way (OA) and it made all the difference.
This. Get ahold of your records or ask your OB what position your LO was in. Poor positioning is not something that tends to repeat itself and is usually something that makes you an excellent candidate for a VBAC.