Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

XP:Back from u/s.....miscarriage mentioned

I had a scheduled u/s and I decided to keep it even though I started m/c on Wednesday. During the scan we saw two sacs...I was pg with twins. One of the sacs had no heartbeat but the second sac there was a slow heartbeat. It was such a bittersweet moment. I was lucky to be able to see it but knowing it will end in a m/c made me very sad. They measured the sac and it was measuring a week behind so I really have no hope at this point. My RE has been away so I'm not sure what my next move will be. Either misoprostal or a D&C. I know this sounds a little harsh but if it is going to happen I would rather it happen soon so I can move forward. I am just so heart broken. I feel like this is never going to happen for me. I just wish they could find a reason and fix it. This uncertainty is killing me.

Re: XP:Back from u/s.....miscarriage mentioned

  • i am so sorry for your loss. you are in my prayers!
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  • Oh Honey!  I am so very sorry!!! 

    My prayers are with you.

  • I'm so so sorry...(((HUGS)))
  • I'm so sorry, sweetie! This must be so hard!?

    (((hugs)))?

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  • I am really sorry.  The uncertainty was what was really hard for me.  My levels kept rising.  My natural miscarriage with eventually taking Misoprostal was like 66 days later.  In the beginning of the miscarriage, I just wanted to TTC asap.  Eventually, I felt better not trying to rush anything.  I just needed to take care of myself first.  Just remember to take care of yourself first. 

     Honestly, I just wish it was easier to TTC and to have a healthy pregnancy.  It just seems like it is easier for other women. 

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  • i am so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • I left you a note on TTTC but just wanted to say again how sorry I am for your losses. I wish they could find a reason and fix it too.  Take care of yourself.
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  • I am really sorry.
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this. My thoughts are with you.

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  • I am so sorry for you losses. Stay strong.
  • I am so sorry!  I completely understand about wanting the m/c to start.  That is why I took misoprostol rather then wait to m/c naturally.  If you have any questions about misoprostol or a D&C, I had to have both with my m/c.  I would be more then happy to answer/help.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your losses. Take care of yourself.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
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