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Vent about DH

StacyCardinalStacyCardinal
in January 2013 Moms

Ok, so my DH has an annoying habit recently of not listening to me... like asking a question in the middle of my sentences... totally urks me!  Makes me feel like what I have to say means NOTHING and he's not interested in what comes out of my mouth. 

Well, last night, he got dropped off from a boy's night a little tipsy (so I was annoyed already) and he changed the subject mid sentence on me again.  This pregnant lady was NOT happy.  

Our argument is not resolved either... I finally broke down and told him that it bugs the crap out of me & I gave him with the silent treatment because I didn't really want to get into it at 1130 last night.  He asked me two/three times what it was I wanted to say and he was sorry... I was just not in the mood to talk to my somewhat drunk husband about it.  Well, he stormed off and went to bed... Still sleeping.  I have to go soon and I really don't want to get into it again before I go...ugh, hormones, poor choices, and annoying habits.

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Re: Vent about DH

  • sekurasekura member
    Leave him a note saying you are sorry you argued and you would like to discuss a solution to the problem (without acrimony) when you get home.  That way he's not stewing and wondering what you're feeling all day, so when you get home you can talk calmly and rationally.

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  • spainy17spainy17 member
    I agree with the pp.  Nothing will get resolved if you don't say something and dragging it out will make it more than it is.  Good for you for not turning it into a fight when he is already tipsy and just address what you want and how you feel once you are calm.  Hormones suck. :)
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