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back from my lap surgery :(

first, thank you to everyone who comforted me the day before my surgery, i needed it.

well, they did remove my one tube due to some type of infection. that infection also put a beating on my other tube. The doc said my other tube was also closed, but he was able to open it. the only problem he sees is the fimbri did not look good and he didnt see alot of them. So he said IVF should be next step. So im in shock and pretty depressed (nothing against IVF) i just never thought that would be my outcome. Esp bc we dont have the $ for that. But before i start to go down that path, i wanted to see if you all have heard of anything to grow fimbri or make them stronger (i know, this is probably stupid) but i figured you all were the best people to ask. I dont get to see my doc until next friday to get all the info (he told my mom and husband everything above while i was in recovery).

also, i think im suppose to move to the infertility board now, i just wanted to give you all an update and pick your brains one last time.

thanks for everything! and GL

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Re: back from my lap surgery :(

  • I don't have any advice, but wanted to say I'm sorry that this has you feeling down. I'm still hopeful for you!
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  • I don't have any experience but wanted to say that I'm sorry you are going through this.  That can't be something that is easy to hear and I hope everything works out for you

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  • Sorry that you got bad news from your surgery. As bbg said, you are welcome over on the Trouble TTC board.

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  • I'm so sorry things have taken this turn for you. Best wishes and loads of GL as you move forward w/your TTC journey.
  • I'm so sorry! I was just now looking for you about the fimbrae but I could not find anything regarding strength remedies. That may be something to talk to your RE about or perhaps the ladies on IF are more knowledgable. 

    I hope you & your husband are able to discuss your options with regards to IVF. Is it possible to save for a while & then try it? I really hope that this is not the end of the line for you with TTC & your dreams of having a baby. You are in my thoughts. 


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  • I'm very sorry about this.  Sad  I know what you mean, that IVF can be very intimidating or seem like such an aggressive "next step" if you haven't been thinking about it prior to that. 

    I also agree that the 3T board may be of more help.  GL to you  

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  • I don't have any experience with this but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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  • I'm sorry you have to go through this. :::hugs:::
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  • *hugs* I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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  • I'm so sorry, good luck with everything and I hope you can get the answers you need.
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  • I'm kind of new here so I'm probablly not familiar to you. But I just wanted to offer you some support. So sorry about the news. Hopefully you can get the answers you're looking for very soon!
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  • I'm so sorry this has happened to you - try the 3T board - they might have some insight. Prayers you're able to find something to better your chances.
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    February 2013 IUI #2 (1.3 Mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, TI & Progesterone 4 mature follicles - BFN
    March 2013 IUI #1-3 (2.5 mil post wash) Clomid 50mg, Baby Aspirin (lining thinned) TI & Progesterone - 2 mature follicles BFN
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    June 2013 DH SA mild MFI break for 2 months to re-test; August 2013 - DH SA 36 Mil count, 36% Motility, Morp 2%
    September - December 2013 - Mental sanity Break
    January 2014 - IUI #4 switches to natural due to scheduling conflict Femara TI & Progesterone - 1 mature follicle - BFN
    May 2014-June 2014 - DH Appointment w/ Urologist to check Bi-lateral Varicocele; 2nd opinion w/ another urologist - bi-lateral varicocele dx is slight no surgery
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    November 2014 Me: new RE PCOS IR Diagnosis
    December 2014: IUI #4 Follitism 75iu 7 days, TI, IUI & Progesterone, BFMFN

    January 2015: IUI #5
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  • I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. Good Luck with everything! T&P ::Hugs::
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  • I'm so sorry :( *hugs*
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this. I wish you the best. It must be scary to have to reconsider your options and I admire your strength during this difficult time.
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  • I'm so sorry and completely understand how you feel. Last month my HSG revealed blockage in both tubes and the dreadful IVF was brought up...it is devastating to hear. I cried for about 4 days and even now still hard to believe. I immediately started researching corrective surgey options...and honestly, IVF was invented for Tubal infertility, so surgery is rarely considered now due to the complications --additional scarring, likelihood of tubes re-closing, and increased incidence of ectopic pregnancy. Every case is different, so a RE will be best to help you figure out which option is best for you.

    I found this site very helpful in the details of tubal infertility, corrective options and the pros/cons between surgery and IVF - https://www.advancedfertility.com/tubal.htm

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  • Oh, also feel free to intro on 3TC and IF, I was able to find a lot of support from bumpies with a similar issue. Good luck!

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  • I'm sorry you are having to go through this.  Like pp's have said, the 3T ladies are full of knowledge and might be able to offer some insight.  ((hugs))
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  • I am sorry you got bad news.  To the best of my knowledge, there is nothing you can do that couldn't have already been done during the surgery.  My RE was able to separate some of mine as they seemed to be fused together, but like damaged tubes or ovaries, there are no herbal/medicinal remedies.


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  • I am so sorry you got that news. I hope things work out. Don't give up.

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  • I'm so sorry. I hope everything works out for you.
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    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
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    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
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    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN

  • ::hugs::  I'm so sorry you are going through this. I don't have any advice to give, but I wanted to offer some support!! 
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  • So sorry you are going through this!
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  • So sorry you're going though all this.
  • im sorry, i have no advice i just wanted to say that i'm very sorry you are going thru this...
  • you ladies are the best! i promise to not give up hope (not promising i wont be down and out for awhile) but i will do my best to stay positive.

    thanks for all the love and support!!

    GL to all of you 

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    Me 33 DH 33 Together since 2002 TTC since Oct 2010 RE March 2012 HSG left tube blocked with fluid July Lap done, removed left tube and right tube damaged Break until we can fund IVF Mock Transfer and Consent Signing appt 11/2 Started BC 12/11, Injection class 12/18 Lupron starts 12/27, Menopur,Lupron and GonalF start 1/9, Triggered 1/20, ER 1/22 11R, 3 made it to day 5, ET 1/27 of 2 blasts, I frozen 2/7 beta #1 380, 2/11 beta #2 ? DD born 10/18/2013 

    FET 9/2015-BFN no embryos left........trying on own until I discovered my only tube was blocked
    IVF#2- started stims 6/12 ER 6/22 16 ER 11 mature 8 fertilized ET 6/27 2 day 5 embryos AB and BB put in. 1 frozen BC. Beta #1-175 Beta #2- 422.  Beta #3- 1,024. US-7/29
  • Sorry for the bad news. Thoughts and Prayers for you both! 
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