TTC After a Loss

Cathartic songs

I have discovered quite a few new songs on this journey that I felt were speaking directly to me.  Anybody care to post links to songs that have helped you as you deal with your losses and TTCing again?

I heard this on the radio for the first time today and wept.
Ingrid Michaelson - Ghost

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PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
So lost.
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Re: Cathartic songs

  • Shake It Out by Florence & The Machine

    Fix You by Coldplay  

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    07/03/2012
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    "If you're still my small babe
    or you're all the way grown,
    my promise to you
    is you're never alone.
    You are my angel, my darling,
    my star...and my love will find you,
    wherever you are."
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    I Can Only Imagine by Mercy Me is very special to me.  
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  • I have a mix I play on my iphone almost everyday on my way to work and it includes both 'Fix You', 'Shake it Out', plus:

    Simple Song by The Shins

    A Thousand Years by Christina Perri

    Every Teardrop is a Waterfall by Coldplay

    I Won't Give Up by Jason Mraz

    Stronger by Kelly Clarkson

    I like a good mix of mellow and upbeat songs 

    Me:32 dx anovulation, unknown reason DH:41
    4 cycles Clomid=No O, 6 total cycles of Femara + Ovidrel
    BFP #1 3/14/12 EDD 11/21/12 MC 3/23/12 5w3d Back to TTC Femara + Ovidrel April/May 2012 
    BFP #2 5/19/12 EDD 1/27/13 No hb @ 7w1d 6/11/12 1st dose cytotec 6/18/12 8w1d 
    RPL panel: MTHFR compound heterozygousStarted folic acid/baby aspirin, cleared to TTC 9/12BFP #3 10/25/12 EDD 7/9/13 Beta #1 13DPO 119 Beta #2 15DPO 264 
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    My Saving Grace by Mariah Carey (it has religious themes)

    Don't Stop Believing by Journey (I actually listened to this song a lot when I was pregnant with Ethan so it brings some great memories and plus, it's really uplifting).

     

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    "Heal Over" by KT Tunstall, and I agree with Shake it Out by Flo & the Machine! 

    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
    Cycle 9: BFP 5-3-12:EDD 1-24-13 It's a girl! Born 12-27-12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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    Shake It Out by Florence & The Machine

    Fix You by Coldplay  

     Definitely those two.  Also "Whisper a Prayer to the Moon" by Eleanor McEvoy.   And "Be OK" by Ingrid Michaelson. 

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  • imageMrsPBandJ:

    I have a mix I play on my iphone almost everyday on my way to work and it includes both 'Fix You', 'Shake it Out', plus:

    Simple Song by The Shins

    A Thousand Years by Christina Perri

    Every Teardrop is a Waterfall by Coldplay

    I Won't Give Up by Jason Mraz

    Stronger by Kelly Clarkson

    I like a good mix of mellow and upbeat songs 

    I love "A Thousand Years".  I gave it to a PGAL friend, and I know it helped her as well.  It's great for anything you are struggling with/waiting for.  I am also a big fan of You Raise Me Up (Josh Groban and lots of others have beautiful versions).  For an ugly cry, I listen to Kellie Coffey's "I Would Die for That," which someone posted to the board once.  I think her SN was "Hopeful17"?  Hopeful something...  she has since disappeared, which is a shame.  Just a disclaimer, "I Would Die for That" is about IF and loss and has babies and toddlers in the video.  If you do not want to sob, don't watch it.

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  • Well, I totally read this as "charting songs"  at first glance, and I was like- wow, somone wrote a song all about charting?  LOL

    Pretty much anything by Florence + the Machine is just haunting and uplifting enough that makes me think of my baby and (hopefully) future babies.  I also love "Let the Rain" by Sara Barelles (spelling? sorry!) 

    DD 9/2/13


  • It's country, but "God gave me you" Blake Shelton.  I am not religious at all, but I love the words and I relate it to my DH.  I am so lucky to have him during these tough times and all the time.  

    "god gave me you for the ups and downs.  God gave me you for the days of doubt.  And when I think I've lost my way, there are no words here left to say, it's true, god gave me you."  He wrote it for his wife, Miranda Lambert. 

    BFP #1- 12/3/09, EDD- 8/7/10, Missed M/C at 8 weeks & D&C- 1/5/10, BFP #2- July 2010, Baby Charlie Born March 29, 2011, BFP #3- 4/12/12- EDD- 12/21/12, Missed M/C at 10 1/2 weeks 5/29/12, D&C 6/1/12- testing results showed triploidy, IF testing all normal, February 2013- IUI#1, femara, follistim, trigger =BFN, March 2013- IUI#2, femara, follistim, trigger= BFP #4, 3/20/12, Beta#1 16dpo= 397, Beta #2 18dpo= 1037, Beta#3 24dpo= 11,589- EDD 11/30/13- It's a Girl!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • Over You- Miranda Lambert

    God Gave Me You- Blake Shelton 

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    DD 3 yo
    IVF #1- 9/2017
  • I love these.

    Here's another. 

    Wish I May - Ani Difranco

    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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    Well, I totally read this as "charting songs"  at first glance, and I was like- wow, somone wrote a song all about charting?  LOL

     LMAO!!

    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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