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? about blog etiquette

So I love being a part of the IF blog scene, but I have one complaint. All of my IF blogs are now PG blogs. I mean, I get that the point of IF treatments is PG, but my entire freaking reading list is FULL of belly shots and ultrasound pics. It's worse than facebook.

One of my favorite blogs actually changed to a new blog for the PG part and the last post on their IF blog was a link to the PG blog. I loved this because then I got to choose when I felt comfortable following the new blog. This is absolutely what I plan to do if I ever actually get KU.

So am I just being too sensitive?

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Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
SAIF/PAIF always welcome

a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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check out my blog!


Re: ? about blog etiquette

  • I unsubscribed to a lot of blogs because of this ...
    Me: 35 DH: 37 TTC since 4/2010
    DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
    IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
    1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
    FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
    FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
    7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
    EDD 2/22/2013
    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
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  • I don't think you are being sensitive.  When I was going through all my IVFs, three or four of my favorite fashion blogs turned into pregnancy blogs.  It happened all at the same time and I had to stop reading them.  Even now that I am KU I don't get it.  If you go to a blog to read about fashion or decorating or IF struggles, why would you want to start reading about someone's pregnancy or parenting.  I think it's a little self centered to think that your readers care enough to read about it everyday.
  • Definitely not being too sensitive... Pretty unthoughtful of those ladies
    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl


  • Thanks ladies, that makes me feel a bit better. I am continuously unsubscribing from blogs, but really don't want to be. I would love to follow them later, but I can't handle that many bellys and babies in my reading list!
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    Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

    a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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    check out my blog!


  • kekiskekis member

    I keep up with all of my blogs through Google Reader.  I have IF & PG categories so I can move them as needed and read when I want/can.

    When our baby comes, I'm going to keep my blog just because it's easier IMO.  Okay --- I'll keep it because I'm lazy.  :)

    Todd & Kristin, 3.10.07

    After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!

    Blog About Us | Blog About RPL/IF/Adoption

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  • imagekekis:

    I keep up with all of my blogs through Google Reader.  I have IF & PG categories so I can move them as needed and read when I want/can.

    When our baby comes, I'm going to keep my blog just because it's easier IMO.  Okay --- I'll keep it because I'm lazy.  :)

    Do you know if there is a way to categorize in blogger? That would be so helpful!

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    Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

    a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

    image
    check out my blog!


  • kekiskekis member
    Not that I know of in Blogger itself, but you can using RSS readers (like Google Reader).
    Todd & Kristin, 3.10.07

    After 5.5 years of loss, heartbreak, and empty arms, our dreams were fulfilled through the beautiful, selfless gift of adoption. We are amazingly blessed!

    Blog About Us | Blog About RPL/IF/Adoption

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  • I find it frustrating because we have been trying longer then a lot of the people's blogs I read.  I am happy for those that succeed after IF but its also a big reminder that here we are 4 years into ttc and we are still not pg.  (((Hugs))) 
    After 4.5 years our miracle IVF baby is here!
    Born 7/30/13
  • imagekekis:

    I keep up with all of my blogs through Google Reader.  I have IF & PG categories so I can move them as needed and read when I want/can.

    When our baby comes, I'm going to keep my blog just because it's easier IMO.  Okay --- I'll keep it because I'm lazy.  :)

    This. I will probably keep my same blog if we ever get a BFP because I guess I feel like it's about the whole journey to a baby, but I certainly wouldn't use it to blog about parenting or any of that other stuff people do...

    I totally understand how you feel, but sorting the blogs in a reader sounds like a great idea! 

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    TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
    Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
    IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
    IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IVF Consultation, More Testing
    Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
    IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
    7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
    FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
    3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
    Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
    EDD: May 16, 2013
    Threatened MC at 6w2d
    Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
    Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
    Finally released from RE at 13w
    Charles Everett ~ Born 5/20/2013

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