Hi all!
I've been lurking for a few weeks, reading about your experiences and what you have to say. Since it's really early, I'll probably still lurk for quite a while, but I wanted to introduce myself. I'm a looking forward to learning about natural birth processes because I believe that I can do it. Dh and I are meeting with a midwife on Thursday and I'm hoping she'll give me some starting resources, but I want to know: What do you recommend to learn about strategies for having and being open to a natural birth over the next few months?
Many thanks!
TTC 1: Off BCP late October 2011. BFP #1 Jan 2, 2012; EDD September 5, 2012; m/c Jan 12, 2012. BFP #2 June 14, 2012; EDD February 22, 2013.
My super all about me birth story:
Then: Fraternal twins born at 26 weeks in 1983. Me: 640 grams. Brother: 840 grams. Family kept watch in the NICU for 5 months before being allowed to go home. On oxygen for a year and a half after being released.
Now: Me: PhD student and married. Brother: Lawyer and married.
Dad's wedding speech: Thank you to all the family who stood watch and prayed for our children's survival. Well now the little scrawny chicken is married. Who would've thought? (Thanks dad for making me laugh and cry at the same time).
My BFP Chart

Re: Introduction and resources for natural birth
things we found most helpful:
watching Business of Being Born
reading Ina May's Guide to Childbirth (particularly the birth stories)
dh and myself reading The Birth Partner
hiring a doula
Gretchen Evie, born 7/8/2012 at 35w5d
All of this. Just keep in mind BOBB is incredibly biased, and not really going to give facts from both sides. I like Ina Mays books, because she provides references for all of her claims, and I like to be able to look over the studies that were cited myself. A doula is a great resource. MH is so nervous about everything, whereas I'm pretty calm and trusting in my body. She'll be a great help to him, and to me if I start to lose it.