WTF Wednesday....

Re: WTF Wednesday....

• rockpaperlove member

  July 2012

  I got two pieces of mail yesterday:

  • A(nother) birth announcement
  • A sympathy card from my local clinic

  Countless BFN(s)
  Moving to IVF
  
  IVF1 (ICSI): Long Lupron
  6R. 3F. 3DT. 8Cell 1Grade 2Embies. 1Frostie.
  Beta 1/22: 14 Beta 1/24: 24 Beta 1/26: 28
  Round One Result: Chemical Pregnancy
  
  Pressing Forward
  
  IVF2 (ICSI/AH/ACU): Microdose Lupron Flare
  13R. 11F. 5DT. 2TFR'ed. 1Frostie.
  Round Two Result 4/30: Harsh BFN
  
  FET. 2TFR'ed.
  Round Three Result 6/25: BFN
  Where do we go from here?
  
  Moving forward with CCRM in 2013
  ODWU revealed blocked tube(s). Lap 2/15.
  Bilateral Tubal Ligation. Stage IV Endo.
  Finally some (tough) answers.

  
  IVF3 (ICSI/CCS): Antagonist with EPP
  13R. We have 3 CCS Normal Embryos!

  
  Lupron Depot: May 2013 to August 2013
  Long awaited FET on 9/3. 2TFR'ed.
  BFP on FRER 5dp5dt: IN SHOCK!
  Beta1 9/10: 152.7! Beta2 9/12: 378! Beta3 9/14: 1224! 

  1st ultrasound 10/1: TWO beautiful heartbeats!  Overjoyed!

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• Roxie5739 member

  July 2012

  rockpaperlove:

  • A sympathy card from my local clinic

  WHAT!!!! Please tell me that I am misunderstanding this? They surely would not do that. I am horrified.  

  Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
  IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
  IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
  Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
  SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

  Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
   

                

   

  
  

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• mm29 member

  July 2012

  Roxie5739:

  rockpaperlove:

  • A sympathy card from my local clinic

  WHAT!!!! Please tell me that I am misunderstanding this? They surely would not do that. I am horrified.  

  WTF is right!  Why would they do such a thing?

  ::: Married June 2003:::
  TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
  Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
  DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
  Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
  IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
  IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
  IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
  IVF# 4= c/p
  ***CCRM ODWU***
  Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
  Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
  ***New RE***
  DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
  IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
  IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
  Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
  
  http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
    
  

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• mm29 member

  July 2012

  WTF mm29,  get off your tail and do something, anything, clean, work out, I mean anything!

  WTF Mother Nature, does it really need to be so effing hot?  I had a dream the other night I woke up to snow, I must have been sweating my ballz off while sleeping.

   

  ::: Married June 2003:::
  TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
  Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
  DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
  Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
  IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
  IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
  IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
  IVF# 4= c/p
  ***CCRM ODWU***
  Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
  Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
  ***New RE***
  DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
  IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
  IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
  Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
  
  http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
    
  

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• Roxie5739 member

  July 2012

  My boss - who has been in my state for last 6 weeks combining work and family time, had a work  lunch less than half a mile from my office and still did not come in to see us. Very poor and disrespectful to the team here. I am not happy!!  Frequent traveller to mt state and only ever come in once to see us in over a year.

  Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
  IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
  IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
  Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
  SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

  Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
   

                

   

  
  

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• mm29 member

  July 2012

  Roxie5739:

  My boss - who has been in my state for last 6 weeks combining work and family time, had a work  lunch less than half a mile from my office and still did not come in to see us. Very poor and disrespectful to the team here. I am not happy!!  Frequent traveller toy state and only ever come in once to see us in over a year.

  I cannot believe that your boss did not come in to see how everyone in your office is doing.  Very disrespectful and in very poor taste!  What is he telling your staff by not checking in?  That he does not care abt the company or care abt what they are doing and he does not repoect the work they are doing?

  ::: Married June 2003:::
  TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
  Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
  DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
  Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
  IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
  IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
  IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
  IVF# 4= c/p
  ***CCRM ODWU***
  Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
  Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
  ***New RE***
  DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. 
  IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
  IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
  Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
  
  http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
    
  

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• rockpaperlove member

  July 2012

  mm29:

  Roxie5739:

  rockpaperlove:

  • A sympathy card from my local clinic

  WHAT!!!! Please tell me that I am misunderstanding this? They surely would not do that. I am horrified.  

  WTF is right!  Why would they do such a thing?

  Yep.  I knew it would be coming since they sent one for the past two failed IVF cycles, but I didn't think the universe would that cruelly conspire against me by having it arrive the same day as a birth announcement.  We sort of laughed it off.  Sort of.

  Countless BFN(s)
  Moving to IVF
  
  IVF1 (ICSI): Long Lupron
  6R. 3F. 3DT. 8Cell 1Grade 2Embies. 1Frostie.
  Beta 1/22: 14 Beta 1/24: 24 Beta 1/26: 28
  Round One Result: Chemical Pregnancy
  
  Pressing Forward
  
  IVF2 (ICSI/AH/ACU): Microdose Lupron Flare
  13R. 11F. 5DT. 2TFR'ed. 1Frostie.
  Round Two Result 4/30: Harsh BFN
  
  FET. 2TFR'ed.
  Round Three Result 6/25: BFN
  Where do we go from here?
  
  Moving forward with CCRM in 2013
  ODWU revealed blocked tube(s). Lap 2/15.
  Bilateral Tubal Ligation. Stage IV Endo.
  Finally some (tough) answers.

  
  IVF3 (ICSI/CCS): Antagonist with EPP
  13R. We have 3 CCS Normal Embryos!

  
  Lupron Depot: May 2013 to August 2013
  Long awaited FET on 9/3. 2TFR'ed.
  BFP on FRER 5dp5dt: IN SHOCK!
  Beta1 9/10: 152.7! Beta2 9/12: 378! Beta3 9/14: 1224! 

  1st ultrasound 10/1: TWO beautiful heartbeats!  Overjoyed!

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• jlcrane78 member

  July 2012

  I have a HUGE one for this week. WTF, guy from my church. You text me a picture of your grandchild holding your other "just born last week" grandchild even after you know I just found out my own pregnancy is over AND just learned I'll probably never have a biological child?!?! I was in disbelief people were that clueless.

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• jlcrane78 member

  July 2012

  I can't do quotes on my phone, but I will say that I wish my clinic was sensitive enough to acknowledge my loss. I feel like just another number there, and that's just sad.

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• rockpaperlove member

  July 2012

  Shame on the church guy!  It still amazes me how insensitive some can be. 

  I thought it was thoughtful of my clinic to send the signed card of thoughts and well wishes the first time and even the second time...but, I just didn't want to see it this time.  That was on me.  Not them. 

  It is def a personal touch that is appreciated since I know their intentions are good and kind and I really liked everyone at this local clinic, but I don't need anymore rainbows and butterflies.  Now, I just want answers from a top notch doc.

  Countless BFN(s)
  Moving to IVF
  
  IVF1 (ICSI): Long Lupron
  6R. 3F. 3DT. 8Cell 1Grade 2Embies. 1Frostie.
  Beta 1/22: 14 Beta 1/24: 24 Beta 1/26: 28
  Round One Result: Chemical Pregnancy
  
  Pressing Forward
  
  IVF2 (ICSI/AH/ACU): Microdose Lupron Flare
  13R. 11F. 5DT. 2TFR'ed. 1Frostie.
  Round Two Result 4/30: Harsh BFN
  
  FET. 2TFR'ed.
  Round Three Result 6/25: BFN
  Where do we go from here?
  
  Moving forward with CCRM in 2013
  ODWU revealed blocked tube(s). Lap 2/15.
  Bilateral Tubal Ligation. Stage IV Endo.
  Finally some (tough) answers.

  
  IVF3 (ICSI/CCS): Antagonist with EPP
  13R. We have 3 CCS Normal Embryos!

  
  Lupron Depot: May 2013 to August 2013
  Long awaited FET on 9/3. 2TFR'ed.
  BFP on FRER 5dp5dt: IN SHOCK!
  Beta1 9/10: 152.7! Beta2 9/12: 378! Beta3 9/14: 1224! 

  1st ultrasound 10/1: TWO beautiful heartbeats!  Overjoyed!

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• Roxie5739 member

  July 2012

  mm29:

  Roxie5739:

  My boss - who has been in my state for last 6 weeks combining work and family time, had a work  lunch less than half a mile from my office and still did not come in to see us. Very poor and disrespectful to the team here. I am not happy!!  Frequent traveller toy state and only ever come in once to see us in over a year.

  I cannot believe that your boss did not come in to see how everyone in your office is doing.  Very disrespectful and in very poor taste!  What is he telling your staff by not checking in?  That he does not care abt the company or care abt what they are doing and he does not repoect the work they are doing?

  Exactly!! Makes it easier for me to leave this place soon and go somewhere that my time and efforts and respected. DH wants me to wait and make a change after my 40th birthday trip in Sept (belated) and then work on this. I am just over this place!!! 

  Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
  IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
  IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
  Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
  SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

  Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
   

                

   

  
  

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• AquaFlowers

  July 2012

  WTF scale, I think you're deceiving me. 

  

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• reb259 member

  July 2012

  jlcrane78:

  I have a HUGE one for this week. WTF, guy from my church. You text me a picture of your grandchild holding your other "just born last week" grandchild even after you know I just found out my own pregnancy is over AND just learned I'll probably never have a biological child?!?! I was in disbelief people were that clueless.

  Hugs!!

  I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
  3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
  Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
  PAIF/SAIF always welcome

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