I havent been doing a sleep/eating schedule. I havent been trying to train for one either. Is this bad, is it something I need to do? There is A LOT of talk about it on here, but for me, LO eats, on average, every 3-4 hours. she sleeps through the night from about 930 or 10 till between 7 and 8. She doesnt really like naps all that much, but will take one from time to time, or cat nap throughout the day.
Re: No Sleep Schedule and such...
I think it's a personal choice- I'm not really a "go with the flow" sort of person so I like the idea of having a loose schedule. I think I've been influenced by my SIL who has 3 kids- they've never had any kind of consistency as far as naps or bedtimes and her kids are horrible sleepers. I don't want to create that issue for my son down the road.
The only thing I would be concerned about is the not napping. All of the sleep books say that babies at this age really can't be up for longer than 2 hours without becoming overtired. So it might not be that she doesn't want to nap- it might be that she gets overtired and then is too wired to fall asleep on her own. I know with my son I really have to force naps on him- he needs that sleep during the day. It's awesome that your LO sleeps 10-11 hours at night but babies need around 15 hours total at 3-4 months. Maybe she's one of those babies that can get by with less sleep but I know with my son he becomes a nightmare by the end of the day when he hasn't napped well.
We have no set schedule. She has certain times during the day when I know she is starting to get tired. So, she generally takes naps within the same hour each day. At night she will go to bed at 6:30 sometimes and then other nights she is up til 8. No later than that though. She still eats every 2-3 hours during the day and we do wake up twice at night for feedings. I'm a stay at home mom, though and don't mind it. I'm really not a schedule type person anyway. It works for us and we are all happy and that's all that matters.