TTC After a Loss

Third time is the charm right?

I'm new to this board but I just started my second m/c this morning. I had two Beta test's to confirm pregnancy and my numbers started out low and only progressed by 5 points ( a 13 to an 18) and then dropped by 6 points by the 3rd Beta ( dropped to a 12) I was heartbroken. I just had surgery May 23rd for my endometriosis and am wondering if it was just too soon after for my body to be done healing enough to carry a viable pregnancy. What's even more devastating is that with the first m/c it was one week after I found out, today is one week after I found out this time and I am starting my m/c today. Sigh. I have high hopes, a lot of faith, and am praying daily but it is still hard. I hope you guys will make some room for me here.
March 2012- Dia.gnosed with severe endometriosis which covered both ovaries May 23, 2012- Laparotomy Surgery to remove Endo, all removed. June 21, 2012- Positive OPK. June 23, 2012- Positive OPK. July 10, 2012- Positive HPT, Beta done that afternoon. July 11, 2012- Beta 13, Progesterone low. July 13, 2012- Beta 18, Progesterone low, prescribed progesterone suppositories. July 16, 2012- Beta tested in the am, Hcg dropped to 12, told to expect a loss. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I really hope that 3rd time is a charm for you. HUGS.
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses.  I hope you can find comfort and support here from these amazing women. 
    Hopefully your time here is short and sweet.  welcome!
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  • I'm sorry for your losses, I've also had 2. Welcome to the board!

    I like your title, "Third time is the charm". I've been hoping this, as well. This whole process is so hard, and I'm trying to have faith.  big ((HUGS))

  • Im so sorry for your losses. Big big hugs to you hun, Im also hoping third times a charm! You will really like this board its full of very welcoming and caring woman!
  • I'm so sorry for both losses, I totally understand where you are coming from since I am going through a similar situation. Try to say positive, your time will come! 3rd time will be the charm! =) that is what I'm hoping for ((hugs))
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    I'm sorry for your losses.  My 2nd m/c was yesterday, so I'm hoping third time's a charm as well!    ((HUGS))
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    BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
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    I'm sorry for your losses.  My 2nd m/c was yesterday, so I'm hoping third time's a charm as well!    ((HUGS))

     

    I am sorry for your loss! I'm right there with you, sending prayers your way that the third time is the charm as well!!

     Thank you ladies for all of the welcomes and condolences I appreciate them! I hope and pray that everyone here will find luck in their next pregnancy so we can move to the first trimester board! But for now i'll make a nice comfy spot here. 

    March 2012- Dia.gnosed with severe endometriosis which covered both ovaries May 23, 2012- Laparotomy Surgery to remove Endo, all removed. June 21, 2012- Positive OPK. June 23, 2012- Positive OPK. July 10, 2012- Positive HPT, Beta done that afternoon. July 11, 2012- Beta 13, Progesterone low. July 13, 2012- Beta 18, Progesterone low, prescribed progesterone suppositories. July 16, 2012- Beta tested in the am, Hcg dropped to 12, told to expect a loss. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • Sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.


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  • I am so sorry about your losses.  Welcome to the board.  This women are awesome.  I hope your stay here is short and sweet.
    BFP#1 02/19/12 missed mc 03/30/12 1st D&C 05/16/12 2nd D&C 08/17/12 
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope the third time is a charm for you! (((hugs)))

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    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

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    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

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  • I am so sorry for your losses but welcome to the board.I hope you find comfort and peace here. These ladies are amazing! Sending big hugs your way today and the days to come :(
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  • So sorry for your losses!
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    I'm so terribly sorry for your losses. One loss is hard, 2 is much harder. (hugs)
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    BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
    BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks

    RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
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    Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!

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  • I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board!!

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    I'm so sorry for your losses.  ((hugs))

    Please, please don't think that your surgery was to blame for this.  You didn't do anything wrong by going ahead with trying to conceive.  FWIW, I've had two laps and both times went straight into fresh IVF cycles.  What you did was safe and okay, and what happened was just a horrible thing. 

     
    Thank you for the reassuring words!! They made me smile :)

     Thank you again ladies for being sooooo welcoming and for the helpful words!! I'm trying to stay positive during all of this and am impatiently waiting until we have the clear to try again, but I also want to space it out so I won't be at risk again. For anyone who likes scripture Psalm 143 has played a big part in helping me to de-stress. I read it anytime I am feeling upset, betrayed, or stressed.  It is also one of the reason's I feel myself still during this whole trying m/c. Thanks again for the kind words. Praying for all here for blessings of baby dust!!! xoxo.

    March 2012- Dia.gnosed with severe endometriosis which covered both ovaries May 23, 2012- Laparotomy Surgery to remove Endo, all removed. June 21, 2012- Positive OPK. June 23, 2012- Positive OPK. July 10, 2012- Positive HPT, Beta done that afternoon. July 11, 2012- Beta 13, Progesterone low. July 13, 2012- Beta 18, Progesterone low, prescribed progesterone suppositories. July 16, 2012- Beta tested in the am, Hcg dropped to 12, told to expect a loss. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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