So I have known for about a week now, and the last two days, I have been an emotional wreck. Is this normal? According to the due date calculator im nearing 5 weeks along. I am sometimes tearful, sometimes mean, and just have a million thoughts running through my head. I am so tired, I just want to lay down and never move again. I am excited and happy to be pregnant, so I would love for this grumpy attitude to go away. Will it? Or is it here to stay?
Re: New here! :0) Question about emotions....
Congrats and welcome! All the things you have described are normal. For me, the mood swings/random crying lasted throughout the 1st tri. Then, 2nd tri was awesome - felt great, had tons of energy, and was mostly emotionally stable. Then 3rd tri, it started to go downhill again.
Try to enjoy it all the best you can. This will be our last baby, so I'm really trying my best to soak it all up. :-)
This last week, I have cried because Andy Griffith died.
I giggled with happiness at my new bath mats.
And I screamed at my poor basset hound for whining (which she does, every day all day, and is nothing new).
I hope this goes away in a reasonable time frame.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
Thanks guys! I actually already feel better knowing that im not alone, and someone else is experiencing the same things I am right now. I have so many feelings running through me that I did not think I would have, one being extreme fear. Fear of losing the baby, fear of actually having a baby, fear of losing my job, so many fears. I truly am overjoyed, and ecstatic to be a momma. Such conflicting emotions lol. This is a first time for me.
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If you knew how lonely my life has been And how long I've been so alone And if you knew how I wanted someone to come along And change my life the way you've done
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Yeah, it's normal, but it sucks. I have been really annoyed by everyone and everything the past few weeks. I snip at people for no reason and cry at the drop of a hat. Just don't make any major life decisions in the next few months and you'll live through it.
I remember this getting better with the arrival of second trimester and I was downright giddy and overly nice to people come third trimester (up until I hit the 40 week mark with no baby in sight!), so hopefully history will repeat itself. I think when you feel like crap all the time and want to puke, you just wish people would leave you alone or bring your oreos and it brings out the worst in you.